Thursday, May 3, 2012

The "Broken" Princess - Our Weekend (Thurs-Sun) Question of the Day...

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I am the "Shawty" in your last question that my 'soon to be lawyer friend' wrote you about. I was flattered that he likes me because when you are in a bad relationship, sometimes, it just helps to smile. He and I work together and I do like him and his honesty but I am in no position to start a new relationship. I have been with my boyfriend off and on for about 8 years and we have a son. My boyfriend owns several (not gonna say it) franchises and when we met, he was still married but has since divorced. Although he carries himself as a Thug at times, he is truly a great businessman. The problem, he can't keep his hands to himself. Some days are great, but then there are other days that if I look at him wrong, he says, "I know you ain't catching an attitude, because you know I have a remedy for that." My family has alienated me, my friends stay far away and I try to put on a happy face daily. My life is just seriously complicated. I guess I need a question, so here it is ........


"How can a man call you his "Princess" but fight you like his enemy in the streets?" I don't deserve this life because I am a good person, but I'm all my son has, so I remain steadfast through prayer!


Ma'am, from this point forward, I will address you as Ms. Princess and your boyfriend as the "mean, ugly, Ogre." You are in a dogfight, and if you remain, things may turn for the worst. I will turn this over to my bloggers and then offer an opinion much later in the process! Thanks for bringing your question to our Forum! 


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Monday, April 30, 2012

"Does (Shawty) want a Thug?" Mon-Tues-Wed- Question of the Day....

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Mr. Anatomy,
I have an issue with a woman. I work at (not  gonna say it) and there is a young lady that I am interested in at our firm. The problem is she is involved with someone else that has that bad boy image. Everyday she comes to work with a very negative attitude about what's going on in her home. People at work are whispering that there may be some abuse in her house, but everyone tries to stay in their own business. Well, we have had lunch several times and I like her a lot and I know she likes me. When she smiles, it seems like she releases some pain slowly, but when it's time to go home, her attitude goes sour again. When I try to get her to open up, she just replies, "You would never understand!"  However, I am a good guy; clean cut, 27 year old college grad. I guess I am like the "Carlton Banks" character on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air. I am very attractive, but just not a thug and I didn't grow up on the wrong side of the tracks! I am going to Law School at night to one day start my own practice. The firm we work at has already committed to making me Jr. Associate when I graduate. My Question is .......
"Why don't ladies like the good guys? They always want the bad boy image! Is it something they want that we aren't giving?"
From hence forward, I will address you as Mr. Good Guy. I selected your question because it hits very close to home with an issue I am counseling about currently. I would like people's input and true opinions before I go further. Thanks for bringing your question to our Forum!


Hurchel Williams, MBA
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