Tuesday, February 12, 2013

He left me when I thought he LOVED me ..... Our Question of the Day...

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 
My life is spiraling out of control and I need a helping hand from you and your followers. I have been dating the same guy for over 6 years. We have invested in each other's lives from the very beginning and  we continued to love and respect each other right up until we decided to get married. He asked me to marry him in front of my family and his and together, we've been planning a wedding since last summer. However, in December we had a big fight about money and our priorities for the future. While I didn't think it was that big of a deal, he cancelled our engagement and started spending time at his best friends house because he said he needed some space to sort through his feelings. I was still seeing him and having sex.  In January, seeing him regularly became seeing him early in the week, and not on weekends! Then, out of no where, I didn't see him for one whole week. I called and called, but got no answer. Then, last Saturday, he finally returned my call and said something that has caused me to cry everyday, and take a leave of absence from work, as I type this to you. This Mother^#*ker said I got drunk and got married in Vegas!! Bullshit, I said....... Mr. Anatomy, my question is......

"Are men truly that heartless and cruel to leave one relationship for another and get MARRIED? How do I move forward when I am in deep depression from the hurt and shame?"

Ma'am, I am so sorry this has happened to you, but I see this as a sign of the times in relationships. Before I give you my spin, I will allow my bloggers to crack this open and share their views. From hence forward, I will refer to you as "Ms. Heartbroken." Please remain available for any questions my followers my have for you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
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