The Anatomy Of A Cheater: 9/30/12

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

I can't Strip forever, Do I Tell Him, or NOT? Our Question of the Day.

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I am in a real quandary about my private life. I am almost done with graduate school and I haven't dated in years. There is this young man that is going to a Seminary here in town and he recently joined our church. He asked me out on a date and believe it or not, I really enjoyed him. Now, we are seeing each other a couple of times a week. Well, my only job is an exotic dancer and I am living pretty good, if I must say. Recently, I invited him into my home, had dinner with him, and extracurricular activities, but after which he found it in him to question my income source. Today he asked me a question about my occupation. This guy is very nice, spiritual, and respectful. My question is ......

I don't like keeping secrets but is it anyone's business but mine how I make my money? It's not a career, but just a means through college!

Ma'am, I seriously thank you for bringing your issue to our forum, while I have my ideas about this topic, as always, I will let my bloggers speak before I render my comment. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have for you.

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Monday, October 1, 2012

A Cougar is Lurking! Young Men, Beware! Our Question of the Day!

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Mr. Anatomy,
Let me start out by saying I value your opinion, as do so many others and I feel like I am having a crisis and I need intervention by your bloggers. About 5 years ago, my husband was diagnosed with testicular cancer and our lives changed significantly. I have been in prayer at the church and since I don't work anymore, I make sure I am there for my husband in so many ways. My husband is impotent and we have sex through our emotions and touch without any penetration. We live in an exclusive high-rise community here in (Not Gonna Say it) and our lives have been good. My problem is, a young bachelor moved in across the hall and I was very helpful with his moving. I stayed at his house waiting for the cable man, At&t people, etc. My husband has been very supportive and wanted me to help out our new neighbor, because, as he put it, "it's being Neighborly." However, last week, when I was over helping him interview housekeepers, we ended up in his bedroom and Lord, I don't know what came over me. He lifted my skirt and that young man took an older woman around all the bases! I am 49 years old, and that young thing is 28. I should know better because he is my son's age. But, I snuck out of the house Saturday, knocked on his door and when he answered, he said, "I knew you wanted me again!" My Question is ........

"How on earth do I stop what is happening and is this something I need to report back to my husband?" I feel like a teenager sneaking out of the window at night!

Oh what a web we weave........! (LoL) Oh Ma'am, I have a lot to say about these actions, and actually, I had another episode similar to yours a few months back. I encourage you to read that Monday, 1/30/12 - Temptation is Testing me (http://theanatomyofacheater.blogspot.com/2012/01/mr.html) I will chime in after my bloggers have had an opportunity to address your situation. From this point forward, we will address you as Ms. Cougar. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers will ask in reference to your situation.

Hurchel Williams, MBA