Dear Mr. Anatomy, www.theanatomyofacheater.blogspot.com
I have a Co-Worker who showed me your blog and says she has read everything you post. So, Today, I find myself in need of a little help. Since she read this so much, maybe she will read my question and know I am trying to give her a hint. I am a single man who works really hard to maintain myself and take care of my children (2) from a previous marriage. I have been divorced for 5 years now and have found myself getting lonely as of late. I am a traveling executive for (Not Gonna Say IT) where I spend weeks away with other co-workers training contractors for the government. I live in (Not Gonna Say IT) Florida, but find myself in every major city in the south based on the need of our company. Here is my situation: One of my best friends and colleagues has my attention. I think I really want to take our relationship to the next level but the problem is, she spends so much time telling me about other guys, she honestly doesn't notice the chemistry she and I have together. Numerous breakfasts, lunches, and even late dinners have us in each other's lives daily, but all she finds time to do is talk about guys she meet, greets, and eventually sleeps with where the interactions goes NO WHERE! Inside I'm screaming, pick me, pick me, pick me, and have even given her hints from time to time. She gives me that "You are so genuine" but you don't want to date me, I'm a hott mess, speech!" The closest I've gotten to being with her is about 6 months ago, we were in (Not Gonna Say IT) and we drank ourselves to sleep in my hotel room. She fell asleep on my lap while I was massaging her shoulders. We came face to face but when the time came to kiss her, I talked myself out of it. When I woke up she was gone! Mr Anatomy, My Question is .............
"How do I turn a great friendship into a romance with the woman of my dreams?"
Sir, I sincerely thank you for bringing your question to our forum. While I don't blog as much as I once did, every now and again, I find a question I feel may help others and make time to reach the masses. First and foremost, you gave me too much information so I took the liberty of blocking out some personal information not needed to further our discussion. From hence forward, I will address you as "Mr. Friend Zone" and allow my bloggers/posters to give you their take on your situation before I render my opinion. Please stay close to the computer because I will give you my advice in 3 days, but everyone else will speak to you directly and may have questions as they proceed. Good Luck!!!
Hurchel Williams, MBA, PHR
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
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