"Who ARE You" .....Our Weekend Mind Puzzler for the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,
I have a really quick question that holds true for so many. While looking in the eyes of my significant other, I saw her dedication to make me feel better in so many ways. I saw her passion to hold me and protect me in ways others haven't. I saw the true desire for someone to love another more than they love thyself. Whether intimacy, friendly joking, or simply comforting me through touch; Come on People, let's talk about if you have ever had that someone. My question to her was ..........
"Who Are You?" Am I dreaming, or is this just a season and maybe this type of admiration will change? Tell me Mr. Anatomy, is this real? 


Sir, I will pose this question to the masses on my blog. In life, we do find someone we are compatible with, but well, let's just hold off on that response until my bloggers have spoken. I like what you have started Mr. Sensitive! Let's have fun with this one! 

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"Why Does He get angry and Hit Me?" .... Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,
I am not sure if you keep information on your attendees, but on March 19 of 2011, I attended your seminar for professors and college chairs at (not gonna say it) University. Your seminar was on infidelity, sex and relationships. During that seminar, you spoke about abusive relationships and how they can be closely related to the inadequacies of a man to please his mate. You said their is an association between a woman's high sex drive and the anger of the man who can't please her. At that time, my relationship was still fresh and new, but here lately, something has happened to make me reach out to you, and ask that you expound on what you were saying. I'm Asian and I spent a few minutes after the seminar speaking to you about my husband's lack of association with sex and pleasure. My new husband seems to want to get upset with me when I don't react the way he feels I should during intercourse. My Question is ......

"Is there something I can do to keep my new husband calm and give him the control he needs in bed?" 

I do remember you and your name. I keep notes and even the questions I'm asked and who ask them. I use the questions later for follow up research. I am so happy you have found your way to our blog site, just sorry you found us on these circumstances. I will refer to you from hence forward as Ms. "Professor." I will expound on my thoughts but only after my bloggers have a chance to chime in. Please remain available for the next few days to answer any questions our bloggers may have of you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA
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"Momma's Baby....Papa; hmmm, Maybe?" Our Question of the Day!

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I have a dilemma that will probably threaten the security of my marriage. Life has a way of coming back to haunt you when you least expect it to. I'm in the U.S. Army and about 11 years ago, I was stationed in Germany with my husband of 2 years at that time. My husband was deployed for about 6 months training with a joint services unit. Well, in his absence, I strayed just a bit and had an affair with a fellow soldier. There truly wasn't much to the relationship, we were just casual friends that had a few too many drinks one evening and sex started and didn't stop until days before my husband returned. Since then, I have been faithful and asked God to forgive my past transgressions. Our life has been nothing short of perfect. Problem is, I have a ten year old son, and I now live in Ft. (not gonna say it) GA. The friend that I screwed around with has resurfaced and is requesting a paternity test to prove my son is not his child! I conceived my son around the time my husband returned, or maybe days before! :(  My Question is .................

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"How on earth do I tell my husband about this request when he knew nothing of the relationship? Do I try to hide it, and pray my son is not the other man's son, or do I come clean, right NOW?"


Ma'am, I must say, you have quite the quandary. For this question, I must take a step back and review the facts much closer. In the meantime, I will address you as Ms. "Paternity" from hence forward, and allow our bloggers to open this discussion as usual. Please remain available to answer any questions my bloggers may have of you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA
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