**I'm Not sure What's Real, What's Reality....but I want Out! **

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Mr. Anatomy,
I come to you in a fractured state of myself and my confidence has been shaken. I've been seeing this young lady, for quite sometime and while I thought the relationship was going in the right direction, apparently, she found the need to write me a derogatory letter about our state of affairs. Like you, she is a blogger, (www.ebonyheights.org) and I have been going along with what she writes about our relationship because it was all in fun, and it gave me an alter ego of a successful, powerful man, with nothing to prove. However, in her last post about our relationship and affairs while I was traveling, something went wrong and she turned me into a spectacle and since my friends follow her blog, I have become the laughing stock of my office. When I agreed to be a part of this and share our experiences with everyone else, we had a few basic rules; To keep it clean, to make sure everyone else respected me in a positive way, and she would NEVER expose who I really am. Well, like she said in her blog, she did come on the road to visit me, but she left out one important detail that I just found out myself when I got this letter, and called her to confront her about her untimely departure! It seems, she met one of my ex girlfriends and she is under the impression I have been playing games with her so now she is trying to ruin my "real reputation" with this blogging thing. My Question is .......

"How do I stop the blogging creativity of my female counterpart and get things back to normal. She has seriously taken what we do intimately to another level and won't stop sharing our exploits with everyone else!"

Mr. Big, I have a lot to say, and since you reached out to me, I had to do my research and go to her blog to question the validity of what you are saying. To me, it seems you have been caught doing something wrong, and now you are attempting to clean it up. I commented on her blog a few days ago but I had NO idea how seriously real all this has become, but remember, you put yourself out there, so I'll let my bloggers speak, and I will then come back with a few words of my own. I will address you from hence forward as "Running Scared" to separate you from the ego she created. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have.

Hurchel Williams, MBA  

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
My life is spiraling out of control, and I have little to do to stop it. I have been working as an escort unbeknownst to my mother and father for about 6 months. The other day, the guy who helps me maneuver through the maze of this lifestyle told me I am committed to him for another year based on what he has provided for me. I walked away because I don't like this and it's too much for me. I went to my pastor and reached out for his help. He was so supportive and went to my "sponsor" and asked if he will let me out of  this unwritten, unspoken contract. My supporter didn't want any problems with the church or exposure in my small town so he agreed to release me. However, he called me 2 days ago and offered me one last "hook up" and says it's a major client that is coming to town for a church convention and area revival. To my surprise, the person he is trying to get me to see is a part of the group that is coming to lead the convention for all the churches in the area. Lord, how did I get mixed up in all of this. I'm 23 years old, and was just trying to get money to help me through college. My Question is .......

"What do I do? I know I can't see the "client" that's coming in, but do I tell my Pastor what was supposed to happen with the member of  this "visiting group" that is coming to conduct this revival?"

First and foremost, let's call your "supporter" what he is; a PIMP? Now, with that said, I have too much to say about this topic, but as always, I will let my bloggers chime in first before I render my opinion. I will address you as Young and Confused from this point forward. Please remain available for any question my bloggers may have.

Hurchel Williams, MBA  

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com (send US your Questions anonymously) 
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