Wednesday, August 8, 2012

**"Should I let the World Know?** - Our Question of the Day.....

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Mr. Anatomy, 
This question has the power to shut this BLOG down with the type of shame my husband has brought to himself and our marriage. I live in (NOT Gonna Say it) and I went to New Orleans for Essence Fest last month. As you may or may not know, this is a weekend event of nothing but fun with my girls from college. Unfortunately, after getting there on Thursday and enjoying the festivities on Friday, I got really sick and had to fly home early. I called my husband several times Saturday before I flew home, but I got no answer because he typically counsels at the church on Saturday. Well, I got to the airport, caught a shuttle home to a really dark house. When I walked in, I heard some music coming from the bedroom. I figured my husband must have gotten my message and was trying to surprise me after all I had been through. Unfortunately, that wasn't the case at all! I walked in on my husband in bed with a big, thick, musclebound MAN. They were engaged in an act I care not to share in detail but let's just say there was a six, and there was a nine involved in the sequence. Bloggers, my husband is an Associate Pastor and the brother that was there with him was his co-worker and department head. I've been to counseling since this happened but I'm afraid I can't get passed what I saw no matter how he tells me that was a one time occurrence. My Question is .....
 "Do I expose what I have carried since the weekend after the forth of July, or do I let the pastor, who speaks out against gays and lesbians keep his secret desires hidden?" 

Ma'am, I must say, this is a strong topic to come back from my short vacation with. Let me tell you this, this topic will be very explosive so be prepared for the type of anger and responses that you might hear based on the enormity of the subject. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. "Shocked" and will ask that you please stay available for any questions my bloggers may have.

Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
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