Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I have a problem. Without making this story long and drawn out, I know my man is cheating on me. We live together and have an adorable child together. This weekend was my man's birthday and our goal was to spend it together. Friday night, he disappeared to get a haircut, not unusual, but he didn't return until Saturday morning. Saturday, he worked until 1:00 PM and got home around 6. We had a few words because I was resting after being out with the baby at a fall festival. Sunday we were supposed to go to church as a family, but plans changed and he went to an NFL game. Well, since Sunday was his birthday, I understood he wanted to hang out with his friends, so I didn't get bent out of shape however, I didn't hear from him again until I was headed to work on Monday morning. So Monday (yesterday) I got all dolled up to take him to dinner, and got the baby dressed, but he didn't come home until 8:00 PM and the baby goes to bed at 7:30. I was over it, so I went to bed around 9. He came to bed at 5:30 A.M. this morning. While getting the baby dressed for daycare ...... "yes, I did it," I went through his phone that was hidden under the covers and my worst fears were realized; His entire weekend in "text! It told a graphic story of not just me, but 2 other women, and he has an ex-girlfriend pregnant. Mr. Anatomy, I'm done but my question is .......................
"How do I handle what I've seen? How do I walk away without completely falling apart. He has NO idea that I've been in his phone, I just left home headed to work, but inside I'm a mess!"
Dear 'Secret Agent' ...... let me first tell you how sorry I am that you have gone through such a tumultuous weekend. That is enough to drive anyone insane. Today, I do you a favor, I will turn you over to my Strong Women, my bloggers and they will tell you how to handle your next few steps. Personally, I am glad you didn't go off the deep end without a plan. Stay tuned for their responses!
Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
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