Saturday, December 31, 2011

New Year's Eve ~ New Year's Day ----Question of the Day ..........

Typically, with a New Year comes a New Direction with a New Attitude. Today, let's keep it simple. Today's Question.......(finish this sentence)

With life and my relationship, this year (2012) I plan to ....................?

Let it all hang out. If you are feeling it, let us know about it. Have a great start to your new year and your new life! 

H. Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker,
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
email: Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
https://www.facebook.com/AnatomyofaCheater71

12 comments:

  1. ‎"Shock the World" - My choice just may raise a few eyebrows!

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  2. With life and my relationship, this year (2012), I plan to live my best life and play big. #teamtakeover

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  3. Live daily~
    Laugh a hell of alot~
    LOVE often!!!!

    Keeping it Simple!!!

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  4. This will be a rebuilding year to over haul who I am.....

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  5. For me, 2012 will be the year I will try to take advantage of every hour of every day. I will make a conscious effort to understand how my actions will affect the actions of others. Like my mentor, Stephen Covey says in his book, 7 Habits of Highly effective People, Habit 2, Begin with the end in Mind! In the past, I really didn't care how what I did produced an outcome from others, This Year, I now Know Better! I will go to bed everyday analyzing the actions I took to make that day special. Self awareness and self accountability are the first two steps to self re-branding and rejuvenation! I am now my own "Franchise" for a better ME!

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  6. I plan to have a bit more control over my personal Panties!!! I have been using sex for an absence of love in my life and "where is that getting me" I ask myself? I want a meaningful relationship this year but more and more I am starting to understand I don't control that, it's controlled by who God wants in my life! But Anatomy, what does that do for my personal feeling? How do I separate divine intervention with wanting to feel special in the arm of a man?
    Help Anatomy, give me some insight!!

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  7. Kimberly Michelle......
    Stay unemotionally attached!!!! Feelings mess up everything!

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  8. Monique Alford.....
    I plan on cleaning house. If I can't think of one thing you add to my life, goodbye and good luck. Some people will always have a place in your heart but not your life.

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  9. Monique Alford
    Sometimes we hold on to how a person was and not who they are now. Some people will always have a place in your heart but not in your life. You can't build a friendship on needing someone's help one day. If that's all I wanted, the list is long. Including mommy and daddy. I am loved by many. I remember a sweet guy living in his grandmother's house. He was my best friend I ever had and he knew me so well. Well he's gone now. He left a long time ago. I miss him

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  10. With my life I plan to pursue a deeper, more intimate relationship with God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. In that process my goal is to discover God's plan and purpose for my life.
    As for my relationship, that is a rather interesting topic for me at this point in time. This year begins with the end of my 22 year marriage. As I approach the impending ending of this union, I find myself asking what do I seek in my next relationship? My first marriage was an abusive one and this one had no oneness, no commonality. We discovered that we both were headed down very different paths, therefore, not being in one accord. My prayer is that God will bring someone special into my life that I can trust to be the leader of the home so I may be able to submit to him as God intended. The word submit is not a negative word if you understand the dynamics of a Godly marriage. It does not mean to lay down and be a door mat but to be able to acknowledge that the man is ultimately responsible for the household and realizing that the woman is to be a helpmate to him. She offers her support, wisdom and opinions to assist him in his role in the marriage and as the head of the family. In turn the man is to love his wife, respect her, revere her, and treat her as an equal. I also desire in this mate a common path that we can walk together helping and supporting one another with the same goals. Working together side by side with the end of those goals in mind. Someone that is like minded where there is no tugging between one another for their own agenda. We are one in mind, body and spirit. First and foremost, I would like someone that has put God number one in their life and willing to listen to Him as well as be obedient to God's direction. How can you go wrong obeying the Alpha and Omega? Finally, I desire to have a right relationship with a man so that we may be an example for others to follow. I truly believe that when both the man and the women put God number one in their life as well as in their relationship it can work for His Glory.

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  11. Ms. Pantie Control,

    You happiness should never be associated with being in the arms of a man. IF you seek us out that way, we will typically disappoint you from the beginning because of the advantage you give us up front. Whatever your association religiously, seek to understand the power of faith and how it can help will your decisions to do what feels right in the heart and not right in the physical. You will win every time when you are led by the emotions of your faith and not of your body!
    Thanks for sharing,
    H. Williams, MBA

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  12. Cindy Lou,
    You never cease to amaze me. You seem to have a firm grip on where you would like to go in 2012 with a clear plan. Seek your direction and you already have the end goal in mind. You are sincerely on the right course, keep our community updated.
    H. Williams, MBA

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