Mr. Anatomy,
You never have "man questions" so I hope this gets posted. I have a problem with being alone. I have been a "sex fanatic" for years, but now I think I want to settle down and be with one lady. The problem is, I keep meeting women and it's not until after I sleep with them, I know whether I like them or not! If I don't like them, they have to leave immediately. If I do like them, I want to be around them and make them special. Problem is, there are few special ones, and more sex partners. My Question is .......
How do I break the bad habit of wanting to be intimate with all the "Hott" women I meet?
Mr. "Man Whore," the term is Monogamy.....and I have several questions for you myself, so I will select your question. I have been where you are going and the ride comes with a lot of discomfort until such time "your plane" lands! Let's let the bloggers dance before I comment! Have fun everyone!
Hurchel Williams, MBA
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Thanks guy who posted this, but I have one rule, I don't include your name as you requested, sorry, but enjoy what they have to say!
ReplyDeleteWhy do you think you want to be with one lady all of a sudden? Do you even think slowing down and being faithful is in your blood? I just started a new relationship with my boyfriend and it has really been fun, but, he still has to deal with his ex because of their kids and a part of me feels they want to be together but not out in the open. So I;m asking you, did you just wake up one day and want to be a better man, or is there sumthin behind this change? You didn't tell us a whole lot, so i guess i'm sayin, tell us more.
ReplyDeleteIt seems you have a thirst for conquering the female flesh and serving your ego. Attractive women are a check off for you and not giving yourself or them any emotional fulfillment. Try dating without sexual impulses and find what you are looking for in a woman. If you are seeking them out for revenge from past hurts, then maybe you should abstain and find a female friend that you can open up to. Furthermore, if you are just a womanizer and getting bored, then evaluate your temptations and figure if you possibly can commit to a relationship without looks and sex being a factor....just be cautious and what your six.
ReplyDeleteRevisit your past and examine the events in it to see if there was an incident that led you into becoming a "sex fanatic" as you call it. Our experiences are what causes our behaviors. If you can determine a root cause then you can begin at that point to get healing in that area and pull the root out. An example: one of my brothers was sexual abused by an older young man when he was young. My brother began to question is sexuality. He got into pornography which led him into taking things to the next level of a sexual addiction to prove to himself that he was a man and not gay. He had suppressed the memory of that abusive incident for years. He later became a Christian and as his relationship grew in the Lord the memory of the abuse came forward. He then was able to deal with that incident and get healing from it. That abusive incident was the root cause of what later grew into an Oak in his life that has been very difficult for him to uproot. Bless you in your endeavor to become monogamous.
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