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Mr. Anatomy,I met a man on the internet 2 years ago who is in the Military. We talked back and forth and even went on several dates as we got to know each other. Finally, he asked me to marry him and against my friends and parents wishes, we got married in Las Vegas last summer. I moved from Portland, OR to Jacksonville, FL where he is stationed. Now that we are married, something changed. The nice man that I met, has become an asshole who is very secretive and mentally abusive! I am 6 months pregnant and he tells me I'm not attractive. He is away at school for 3 weeks and I decided to snoop around a bit. I found a trunk in the attic and to my surprise, it had literature about Witchcraft, Wicca, and Children of Artemis. I found photos of him dressed up and parading around with half naked women around a huge fire. I am a devout Christian and want to raise my unborn child that way. In the past, when I discussed my faith with him, he said, "Religion is something I'll get to One Day!" My Question is ......
"Should I leave him NOW while he is away? I'm scared at what he will do when he realize I broke into his trunk and found his secret life!"
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Ma'am I can't make the decision for you but will offer my advice and insight as an educator. Religion is used in our society as a means to fabricate a behavior that is good and bad. Moreover, the target is the mind. All cult religions have fatal results and leave behind questions in psychology. The mind is a very tender part of our head and can be manipulated if the person allow it. In your case, leave now before you and your child experience something you will regret later. Cults are very powerful and controlling. Get back on the west coast with your family or friends that you can trust and set up house. Your suspicions causes you to find out information needed for your survival and Gods source for you to leave. Internet dating is like a box of chocolates and you never know what you are going to get. he is already started the mental abuse and you are a long way from home for help. Please leave for you and your child's safety. All case studies I've viewed has had fatal endings mentally and physically.
ReplyDeleteI think what Byron said was spot right on and I believe you should leave sooner than later. Because he hid this from you tells me he has a sense of purpose to do what he wants when he wants. He will probably try to slowly demonize your mind when you are at your weakest state. You should be very leery of being there when he returns and he knows you know his secret. Wickens can't coexist with people of other faiths forever. At some point, his gathering society will ask for a sacrifice of a new soul and I will bet you anything it will be the soul of your unborn baby. Be careful and watch for signs around the house that he is converting your house into a place of sacrificial presentation for the next soul to be unveiled. My name is Trudy and my mother and father practiced witchcraft their entire lives.
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ReplyDeleteI completely understand your grieving. I am in agreement with the two previous posts. I say RUN, RUN FAST back home. As the card says in monopoly although with a little twist: "Go straight home to Oregon, do not pass Go or collect $100.00"! Get out of Dodge as fast as you can.
I base this on my past experience. I was the youngest of 10 children. I have seven brothers and two sisters. My dad got involved in witchcraft, cult and satanism before my oldest brother was born. It opened up the doors to a side of the spiritual realm that created dire circumstances in the lives of some of my siblings. I praise God every single day that He protected me while I was growing up and for the strong relationship I have with Him now but my heart grieves everyday for my siblings that were not so blessed and still suffer from it!!!
The Word says:
Deuteronomy 18:10-11 (NIV) Let no one be found among you... who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or cast spells, or who is a medium or spiritist.
Leviticus 19:31 ‘Give no regard to mediums and familiar spirits; do not seek after them, to be defiled by them: I am the LORD your God.
Leviticus 20:6 ‘And the person who turns to mediums and familiar spirits, to prostitute himself with them, I will set My face against that person and cut him off from his people.
There are plenty more scriptures that speak about it as well. You DON'T want to be involved in any part of what he is practicing. You need to protect you and your unborn child from the hands of the enemy. Plus it says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?
Base on what you said, I would say that you are MOST DEFINITELY unequally yoked. I don't think you could be anymore unequally yoked!!! Buy a concordance at a Christian bookstore if you need to and do a study in the scriptures on witchcraft. You have just cause to run!!! Get out of there as fast as you can is my advice. I have witnessed first hand the destruction that the practices of what you have discovered can bring on a family and it is not pretty nor fun!!! You are in my prayers!!!
ma'am check out this website about stories of destruction in witchcraft
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You need ta roll out now! Man, religion is a funny thang and it ain't ta be messed with. If da man is showing you tha wrong side of him already, you need ta go, and go fast! Don't be there when he come back cuz ain't nuthin good waitin for you. Down here in Miami, tha Haitians do Voodoo and people be comin up missin behind that foolishness. I might be hood type, but I'm Catholic and I believe, no what I'm sayin? You don't mess with tha powers of God. Witches ain't real but the stuff they try to do is scary stuff. I think they with tha devil and demons and stuff. Run lady.
ReplyDeleteYou should run fast! Escape that life or be absorbed by it!!!! I was married and the lies and deception took control of the relationship. When it was time to quit it and go our separate ways, it was hard because we were friends. You can't live with someone that lied about their religious association or the fact they are practicing witchcraft. That is a toxic relationship. How can you be a part of devil worshiping if you are a devout Christian as you have said. Here in Montana, there are not a lot of people but even here it was found out that people are getting together and worshiping fire and Satan. Those cult like gatherings go on everywhere and can be very disruptive to your Christian values. Like Byron said, get your baby and get out of there quick. Mr. Anatomy I finally figured out how to sign up for your blog and I even added my picture. Now I can always be a part of the discussions. Thanks for your help.
ReplyDeleteDon't be afraid to pack your belongings and get out of there fast!!! If you are a devout Christian and you understand why you are and what your beliefs are, never compromise your walk with Jesus for anyone else. You said he has changed, well, the signs are there for things to change even more. If I were you, I would take what Trudy and Cindy said to heart since they have both dealt with that type of nonsense. I don't know a whole lot about it, but I do know they worship fire, the devil and all types of demonic symbols. I wouldn't want my child born anywhere near that crap. I would go back to Oregon and file for divorce quick. Irreconcilable differences to the highest degree. Apologize to your parents and take shelter with them. Raise your child as you see fit.
ReplyDeleteDear Devout Christian,
ReplyDeleteThe miracle of life is always a gift from God and the connection you share through your faith. In this season of Easter, I am sure you are really at a crossroad in your own life, based on the information you found when you sought to remove the blinders and understand more about your own relationship you share with your husband. Make NO mistake about it, you didn't stumble on that trunk by accident, your own fears and discernment lead you there, now you must decide what to do with the information you've discovered. Normally, I never tell anyone to leave their present situation without communication, understanding, and counseling about the reason for their possible departure. However, your husband's secrecy about his life can be viewed as deception and an attack on how you walk in your personal relationship with GOD. My fear is, when he returns, the truth of your discovery will compel him to tell you of his intentions for the family, and more importantly, the direction for your unborn child. My advice, shelter yourself and the child from his lifestyle by going to a neutral corner. Go home to your parents, then communicate the reason for your departure via letter, email, or phone conversation. This will allow him to come to terms with his deception and hopefully make him understand the severity of his decision to follow such a diverse association through his secret life. Maybe he will find the love in his heart, and make a change to be evenly yolked and not so divided by a cult like affiliation, as he currently participates in. Good Luck!
Mr. Anatomy = H. Williams, MBA
Sweetie all I can say about this situation is, if you were raised believing in God, then you know that the best thing for you to do is leave. If you feel like you and your baby could be in any danger by furthering your relationship with him, I would leave NOW and not later. Also, I would make sure that I leave absolutely nothing of mine behind. Phone your nearest relative and friends and have them come and assist you with moving right away. Like I said, this is only an opinion! Something else to think about is talking to his commanding officer and let him/her know about your decision to leave so that you will be able to directly communicate with the services about medical services and support for you and your baby. (you don't have to divulge why if you don't feel comfortable doing so)
ReplyDeletePlease get away we all know nothing good comes from satan.
ReplyDeleteHell yes....run don't walk
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