The Anatomy Of A Cheater: 3/25/12

Friday, March 30, 2012

I'm Not the "Baby Daddy" Friday - Saturday - Sunday - Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,

I'm losing my mind with deception so my cousin suggested I send you my question because she said you and your bloggers handle some strange but TRUE questions on this site! Well, I'm a truck driver in the U.S. Army stationed at Ft. Hood, Texas. My wife is 6 months pregnant and that is keeping me up at night staring at the ceiling. After our last child, who is 3, I secretly had a vasectomy to keep from getting my wife pregnant again. So, imagine my surprise when she told me we were having another baby? Mr. Anatomy, I'm NOT the baby Daddy so we are both lying to each other. My Question is ..................

"How do I tell my wife of 8 years I know for a fact, the baby she is carrying is NOT mine?"

This is definitely a question that will require some thought. I must say, I haven't seen this type of deception that has the ability to alter the outcome of a new life. Bloggers, let's really give this one some serious thought and shed some light on this man's situation!

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Monday, March 26, 2012

The "Real Housewives" of Anatomy - Tues - Wed - Thurs- Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,

I have what I call the "NeNe Leaks" syndrome. (The Real Housewives of Atlanta) She filed for divorce about a year ago and now feels confused about making it official. It's a classic case of wanting her cake and eating it too! Men do it all the time and no one is phased by it. Women are so much more emotional. However, I know exactly what she is going through. I love my family so much but my husband and I just don’t have IT anymore. The IT is referring to the romantic side of a relationship. We have been through so much hurt and pain over the years, I don’t feel like it can be patched up. We can’t stand each other in sight but miss each others' friendship when apart. He will do whatever I asked at a drop of a dime and will give me his last. However, I think we are much better people apart. We are great parents and best friends but I feel like as soon as I sign the divorce papers, he won’t be there for “ME” anymore. I am not leading him on and he knows how I feel. We are at the end of our divorce, but I won't sign and make it official. My Question is .........

What can I do? I’ve been reading your blog and I know people can be harsh, but I am asking for insight.

Wow, talking about seriously being a problem. I know this scenario oh so well. I am counseling several couples with this similar issue. I will direct all of them here to chime in on how they feel to reach a solution together.