Saturday, November 10, 2012

**How does a woman Break the Hold that "LIFE" has over You......!**

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 
I have read so many stories like mine on your blog. Stories of unhappiness and disappointment from decisions I've made to stay in a relationship that is going no-where. As I send this email with tears in my eyes, I need your valued bloggers to walk me through the pain. I have been with my husband for over 12 years and we initially got married because I got pregnant and my family insisted I do the right thing and marry the father of my child. Now, a total of 3 children later, I feel like I am locked in a glass cage with no way out of my life. I am educated, attractive, and successful in my own career, I just like to LOVE my husband, but I can honestly say I am not in love with him. He is a great guy, great provider, but there is absolutely no passion that makes my eyes roll back in my head. For me, foreplay means nothing even as he tries to perform it. My Question is......

"Is this all life has to offer by way of love and relationships? I am spiritual and I've been to counseling where I've tried to find reasons to make this work, but what happens when it just doesn't work. Will God forgive me for giving up?"

Ironically, this is a scenario described to me all too often. The story of the young lady who marries early, has the family but seeks more by way of understanding in her own life. I do have a plan for women like you, but as always, my bloggers will speak first and I will follow with my assessment. From hence forward, you will be addressed as "Ms. Emotion" as we look for a solution to your issue. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have for the next 3 days.


Hurchel Williams, MBA 
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Tuesday, November 6, 2012

On the Down Low..but Somebody Has to Know! Our Question of the Day.

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I have done something that is strangely out of character for a man of my statue but I truly don't know how to stop this awful behavior. I would like to be life coached and now that you have my email address, I was hoping my first stop would be your blog to see if anyone else have gone through what I am. I am a man who have achieved a lot of success on many levels and women have never been a problem for me. I have been faithful in my 7 year marriage and I am certain she has too. My problem is I have been seeing another man for about 3 months. What started as some dumb type of fun, has become something I look forward to once or twice a week. I know a lot will be said and I was directed to your site by a really good friend of mine here on the west coast who you know well! Although I am being safe in my other activity, I am still having "relations" with my wife as well. My Question is ......

"Is there a psychological term for what I am going through? I am in my mid 40's, healthy and vibrant, but I can't understand how this has entered my life! Does this mean I am homosexual?" 

Sir, from hence forward, I will address you as Mr. Inappropriate to outline the fact that you are dealing with two people of the opposite sex, with one being your legal wife. I have a mouthful to say, but I will allow my bloggers to have first "voice" and I will chime in later. Please remain available for any questions that may be asked of you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
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