Is it "My Business??" Friday - Sat - Sunday - Question of the Day .......

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I work with the (Not gonna Say it) school district at one of the high schools. Well, the other day, I was leaving after a late evening meeting with the office staff. I got half way home, and realized I left my purse on the office counter when I signed out. When I got back, I heard a strange noise coming from the principal's office so I went closer to investigate. When I peeked in the door, the principal and the office administrator were on his desk having sex. Shocked, I close the door and quietly gathered myself before leaving. The principal is single, the administrator is married, and I am single too. I have been trying to get the principal to notice me for months, but now I know why he has been dismissing my advances. I am so mad. I'm a plus size lady, and she's an anorexic whore. My Question is ..........

Should I expose this relationship to everyone at work or just leave it alone? I am pretty upset because that behavior is inappropriate for work. What should I do Mr. Anatomy? 

This situation is hilarious and I will give you my opinion once my bloggers have had time to digest this. Bloggers, start your engines!! 

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Love MY Child or Lose your Wife ~ Tues - Wed - Thurs - Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,
My Question is about my husband and the relationship he has with our son. When I met my husband, I was 6 months pregnant. Part of his approach to me was "I want to raise your unborn child as if he is my own!" I thought that was such a special thing to say to a woman considering his biological father is a complete Non-factor. We were married and began our life as husband and wife. Now, a year and a half later, that person who promised to be a father to my son, is not living up to his promise. He does NOT treat my son like his own, he makes differences in my son versus his real children from a previous relationship. It is so obvious that other people see it and privately ask me if he even loves my child? I am a Black lady and my husband is White. Our son is black and his other children are bi-racial. He admits there is a problem, but nothing has changed. My Question is .............

Is this grounds to leave my husband and ask for a divorce? I love him, but my child's happiness comes first! What should I do?

Ma'am, this is truly a touchy subject and I have agreed to accept your question in an effort to let our bloggers help sort through the maze you are dealing with in your life. I will offer my opinion after everyone else has had a say.


Hurchel Williams, MBA
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My "Pastor" is a Player ...... Sun ~ Mon ~ Tuesday's Question of the Day.....

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Mr. Anatomy,
I'm mad as hell, and I am NOT going to let him get away with this! I attend (Not Gonna Do it) in (Not Gonna Say it) and my cousin confided in me yesterday that she is having a physical affair with the associate Pastor of our church ! He's the next in charge at the church, and he's behaving like a teenager. She's 24 and he is 49 and married. I am so mad, I want it to be known. She swore me to secrecy but my lil cousin is in love with him but he tells her the time is not right to leave his wife! But wait, Mr. Anatomy, the bad part about it is, I am involved with him too and he told me the same thing! My cousin has no idea he and I are sleeping together too. I am 2 steps from telling our Pastor about all of this and exposing everything. My Question is ...................

How do I handle this without hurting innocent people not involved? Do I tell, do I shut up, What? Mr. Anatomy, please help me?

Wow, this is a very volitle situation and frankly I have some advice, but it may not suit your needs. I will let everyone else give you their opinion, then I will divulge mine.

Hurchel Williams, MBA
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