The Anatomy Of A Cheater: 6/24/12

Thursday, June 28, 2012

"If Leaving YOU is Wrong what's Right,"...Our Question of the Day!!

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Mr. Anatomy,
I have a dilemma and after reading some of your past post, I am almost certain you and your bloggers can help me understand the direction I should take. I am dating one of the Ministers from my church and things have gotten pretty serious. He was there for me when my husband received a Federal charge about 8 years ago and had to go away. My husband took a charge for our family owned daycare, and didn't take me or my sisters through the process. He decided the "buck" would stop with him. I have been visiting him twice a month since he's been gone. What he doesn't know is I have divorced him because I didn't think it was right to date and still be a married woman. The Minister and I are madly in love, but I don't want to be seen as a wife that lost love for her husband, but 7 years has passed and I just don't have that love I once did. I have been struggling with how to tell him this for the past 2 years, but I can't procrastinate any longer. I pick him up next Thursday to take him to our local halfway house. My Question is .......

"How do I tell my ex-husband I have moved on and don't want to be married to him any longer? He and I will always be friends and share our son who is now 10."

Ma'am, first and foremost, thanks for bringing your question to our Forum. Now, while I never judge and always keep my answers above board, I have to prepare you for the direction my bloggers my take. They are a pretty vocal bunch and things tend to get opinionated. With that said, I will address you as Ms. "Confused" from hence forward. Please remain available to answer any questions my bloggers may have.

Hurchel Williams, MBA
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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

"The KIDS and Baby Moma OR Me!" Our Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,
I need your help, and in the worst way. I have accepted my boyfriend's proposal for marriage and that is supposed to be a good thing, but I have one slight problem; that damn baby-moma and those bad ass kids! When we were dating I just tolerated the kids and the constant calls from the "Dragon-EX" but now, since he has asked for my hand in marriage, I am seriously having second thoughts. Everything his kids do, he thinks it's funny, and I am annoyed! His son (6) put ants in my car, under my mat and as I was driving I was being bit. His daughter (8) poured all of my shampoo out of my bottle and replaced it with Liquid Tide for washing clothes. The "Dragon-EX" lives around the corner and it seems every time I am visiting, the kids just kinda show up with her knocking at the damn door! I feel Like I'm hangin out with the Boondock's kids, Riley and Huey! My Question is.........

"How do I handle this unfortunate situation? I think I "hate" his kids and he won't take my feelings serious. He is laughing with them, but the sh*t ain't funny!"

Ma'am, first and foremost, let me thank you for bringing your situation to our forum. While unique to you, I can assure you, you are not alone in your quest to break your man away from his past. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. "Tortured" and try to find a solution to your problem. First, let's see what our bloggers have to say, then I will give you my opinion. Please stay available for any questions my bloggers may have of you.