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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
As we all do, I have a past, and mine is a bit checkered. 5 years ago, I was up against hard times and I started to sell my services as an escort in the rather large city I live in. I had a select few clients and I was always safe and discreet with all that I did. I was a single woman, without children and I always went to remote places. I haven't done anything like that for about a year now because I have my stuff together, a new man, and a great new job. I told all my clients that I have retired, so to say, so please don't contact me. Well, the other night, while at a business function with my new boyfriend, he introduced me to his boss. When his boss turned to shake my hand, I and he instantly realized we knew one another from my escorting days. My expression said it all, and when my boyfriend asked, I blatantly lied because I didn't know what else to say. Since I knew this man intimately, I told my boyfriend I knew him from church vaguely, but didn't offer anymore information beyond that. Every since that night, I have had an uneasy feeling about lying to my boyfriend. We have been open and honest about "most" things in our relationship, but being and escort has been hidden very deep inside me! My Question is ......

"Should I come clean about my past? Or leave it buried where it is. I am a completely different woman, but if my boyfriend finds out, I want it to be from me!"

Ma'am, thank you for bringing you issue to our forum. I will give your question my full attention, but not until after my bloggers, and followers have had a chance to chime in. From hence forward, I will refer to you as "Ms. Escort." Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have of you.

Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker

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