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Mr. Anatomy,I stumbled on your site using Google and have read some of your reviews on giving advice and real answers. The consensus is you are a person who don't stray away from the unique questions people want to know the answer to. With that, I have a situation. I am an attorney from Florida who litigates for political interest. I've been married to my wife for 2 years and she is of Cuban descent. While she speaks Spanish, I don't. Well, in my absence, she has rekindled an old friendship with an old male best friend she knew while in high school. She secretly told me his is gay, and doesn't pose a threat in any way to our relationship, however, I noticed, they always speak to one another in Spanish in my presence which really has me wondering what is being said. They both are fluent in English but choose to speak in their native tongue in the presence of others. She hired his company to do our lawn work and our pool maintenance. Even though he's the owner of the company and don't do the work himself, he seems to be at my house every time his employees come out to work. My Question is .....
"Can a man and woman be platonic friends and trusted to do the "right" thing when no one is watching? and, How do I know he is truly Gay, are there tell tell signs?"
Your question is very unique in nature and as such, has been selected to take the Anatomy fanz and bloggers into the weekend. While I definitely have my opinion about platonic friendships with men and women, I will let my trusted bloggers address your concerns before I chime in. Bloggers, have at it, and thanks for being so loyal! Hurchel Williams, MBA
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