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Mr. Anatomy, 
I have a question about relationships. I have been in an open relationship with a friend for about 5 years, but the last year or so, we have been completely committed to one another. I am an independent female, so it took me that long to trust enough to go further. Well, he has two children from a previous relationship in a different state that I was aware of. In late 2010, I was told about a 3rd child produced while we were "kickin it" in our open relationship, here where we live. While I was pissed because of the delayed information, we got passed that, and entered our committed relationship. Things have been great until lightning just struck again. He just dropped another child on me! The child is the exact same age as child # 3 and he knew about this child 6 months after it was born, but I found out the "other day!" My question is .........

"What is a woman to do with all of this deception? Typically, our relationship is sound, but "whyTF" does negative information from the past keep creeping into our lives?" 

Ma'am, I must say, you have quite the "man" opposite of you. While trust, commitment, and honesty should go without saying, you two need to have a "come clean" conversation; and soon! From hence forward, you will be addressed as Ms. Understood and I will give you my opinion once  my bloggers have had a chance to chime in. Please remain available for any questions the forum may have of you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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