Why Is Love So Hard ....... Our Question of the Day.....?

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Mr. Anatomy,
I recently got a divorce from my husband after an up and down relationship of 10 years. I loved that man with all I had. I loved him through poverty, I loved him through infidelity, and most of all, I loved him through the loss of his parents which ultimately changed his life for the better. At the end of this relationship, I got all big and bad and demanded a divorce and he reluctantly granted me my wishes. Now, it's been a year and although I have started dating again, and have a full time man, I can't get my ex-husband out of my head. When he comes over to get the kids to take them back to his house with his new lady, I completely breakdown inside. When I make love to my boyfriend, I can't help but see my ex and that helps me complete the task at hand. (LMAO) My Question is.......

"How do I move forward and put my life back together when I can't stop thinking about my past. I was a fool for moving forward, but what's done is done, right? I miss that man sooooo much!" 

Ma'am, there is a song that describes your dilemma, "When you Tryin to Love Two"  and that is how I will explain your issue but, I have some more words for you. I have to let my bloggers have you first and I will come back with my advice. Please stay available for any question my bloggers may have. By the way, you are now Ms. "2Love" and we will address you as such! 

Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
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