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Dr. Anatomy .... I have a problem and I am so glad you are allowing me to be your first issue to announce your return to blogging. I have been with the same man since we started dating in college. I am 27 years of age and he is 31. We have a great life together and share twins, 1 boy 1 girl who are 4. The problem, without going into too much detail is this: I have been totally bored during this Covid - 19 Pandemic and have been going to dating websites that accept that you are married but will let you fool around a bit if the opportunity presents itself. I listened to your Podcast with my 3 girlfriends and my husband when you brought the lady on from California and I felt what the 2 of you talked about is what I feel I need. But ...... how do I tell my husband I want more out of a physical relationship than what we are doing now? He listened to the show too, but did not have anything POSITIVE to say that would make me think he is open to the idea of doing "other" stuff in the bedroom. He has always been so traditional. Wam, Bam ... it's OVER. I am bored and I find myself taking fieldtrips to the grocery store just to get attention from men. I know I am wrong, but damn, "Do I want to be right?" Please help!
Signed,
I need some "NEW ATTENTION"
Dr. Hurchel Williams
Life Coach, Relationship Counselor, Tantra Adviser
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
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Hello Ms New Attention, Thank you for sharing your story. You mention having a great life together which is awesome. A large number of people wouldn't use "great" as a description in their relationship...I commend you for your effort and attention. It's not easy, especially with little ones. 4 year old twins??? Bless you!! ❤️��
ReplyDeleteYou mention your husband being 'traditional". Have you voiced your desires to your husband? Not suggested, but told him this is what I need and want you to do to me. Touch me here. Lick me there. Put your dick in this way. Remind him you were lovers before you were his wife or the mother of his children.
If I were in your situation I would open a conversation with him one evening as we sat down together "remember that night we listened to The RX podcast? People had different definitions and views about polyamory and swinging and what and why. Since listening, Im finding the topic and information interesting and valuable to me. What do you know? Do you care to learn more?" Etc.
Above all be open and honest, but be sensitive about how and when you deliver the message or ask for permission.