It's the weekend, and since we can really think and have the time to sit at the computer and go back and forth, let's move towards physicality in relationships. So here is Today's Question........
IS THERE ANYTHING SEXUALLY THAT YOU CRAVE OR DESIRE THAT YOUR MATE WON'T DO? IF SO, WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE DEPRIVED; anger, arguments, infidelity, etc?
Come on people, let's talk about it and stretch our voices through imagination.
Chime in......
H. Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,
Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
I actually crave to have a three-some, but there is no way in hell by other half would entertain this thought. How would I ever get this conversation started to get on the subject with him....enlighten me???
ReplyDeleteAnonymous,
ReplyDeleteOh wow, YOU really opened us up with a bang. That is a very touchy subject because of all the ramifications that follow. Men and Women have to be mentally tough for an undertaking that large. Typically, one partner is always seeking that type of fun while the other has apprehensions and hang ups. I always stress communications within relationships, but with this, you need extra talk. My advice, go to a setting conducive to what you seek. A lot of major cities have swingers clubs which, for a fee, you can pay to get in, and just watch. See what your partner's reaction would be in such an active setting as that. If you can survive that, then the process moves forward to, "Who shall we select" and if the selection involves another couple or just an individual! Keep us posted.
Thanks for letting us inside your mind.
H. Williams, MBA
My mate wants to have a threesome and I'm all for doing what it takes to make him happy. But he wants me to find the female. Why should I find a female for him when he's the one who wants the threesome? That's like me asking him to go and find a male for me to have sex with, with him. What would be the reason for him asking me to find a female?
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ReplyDeleteAnonymous,
ReplyDeleteMen always express their desires to be a part of a threesome, however, the reason he ask you to reach out is (in my opinion) if he finds the lady, or bring her home, the first thing you will say is. "How do you know her, or did you already have a relationship with her? How did you bring it up? She's not cute, I don't like her......blah, blah, blah....and the most important one, Do you like the way she looks? Is she prettier than me?" So, with all the questions that loom, that is why he ask you to do it. Fewer questions, less liability; all he has to do is show up, perform, BOO-YOWWW, an he's completed his fantasy! Question for you, how do you feel about being a part of this new found partnership or extra curricular activity?
Thanks for allowing us inside your head!
H. Williams, MBA
I would like to have another female in the bedroom when ever he or I want her to be be there. I am very secure about myself. I had a good teach that told me to never doubt myself. With that being said I welcome the extra actives.
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ReplyDeleteThat's the way to go then! If you are both confident and there aren't any issues, do what it takes to make your relationship work. I applaude the efforts of you and your husband!! Keep our community posted, and assure your husband that if he picks her you are perfectly fine with his judgement!
Thanks for sharing!
H. Williams, MBA