Saturday and Sunday's Question of the Day....

We will keep it short and simple. While out partying with friends, I was asked to post the following question. So to Claude's request, I ask.....

How do you know when you're really in love?

Let's talk about it......

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

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Question of the Day ..........

To Follow up on yesterday's question, I venture to expand the real statement that "No One" really wants to touch, so here it is....

Is Anyone truly happy in Relationships? Think about it.....everyone wants to get their "happy ever after" BUT, I want you to really think before you respond: Do you personally KNOW any couples married or in an extended relationship, that are truly living a happy, blissful, Life? Or do we just settle and stay in these relationship until which time we can't take each other anymore and change our situations?

If you know of happy people who are married, or in a serious relationship, let me hear you. However, if you don't, I want you to expound on my theory as well. Let's discuss this openly and honestly until we are all in agreement! (yeah, right, agreement) LOL. Maybe we can find solutions to make life better!

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

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Question of the Day ..........

Today's question is simple, sweet, and to the point......

Simply, are you where you'd like to be today? Are you in the loving relationship you choose to be in? 

Why or Why Not? or Are you simply existing until such time something new appears?

Do some soul searching with this questions and tell me who you see in the mirror! 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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Question of the Day ..........

"The mind is a terrible thing  to waste!" The UNCF made that slogan famous and on many levels, it's perfect to churn the spirit of inspiration inside of us. However, today, I want to explore your interpretation of those words. Today's Question is .............

How many times in your own life have you had to pull from your sexual subconscious to reach your orgasmic goal? You are with one, he or she is working you over, but mentally, you are pulling from another source (thinking of someone else) to push you over the hill !!  I know it happens, I just want to know when and how it happened to you! Explain, give us a bit of yourself. 

Let's make today a mentally stirring day where our end result is a smile of mass proportion! 

H. Williams, MBA 

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, 

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

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Question of the Day ..........

Today, let speak to the inner desires of self thought versus reaction; how one either restrains self, or releases the secret inhibitions based on our hidden desires. Our question today is loosely based on a conversation I had with a friend a few days ago. I felt this question had the propensity to evoke thought among our dedicated bloggers. 

Have you ever had a secret desire to date/fool around with/ or have a relationship with someone you knew was completely off limits? By off limits I mean, a boyfriend of a friend, a friend of an ex boyfriend, etc. A relationship, that if exposed, would be frowned upon by others. Did you do it anyway? How? What was the outcome? 

Tell us all about it. We are all human, let's seek to learn from the secret rendezvous of your past. If need be, you can start it by saying, "I haven't but I had a friend who........." (wink-wink) 

H. Williams, MBA 

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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Question of the Day..........

It's Monday everyone! Time to dust off the cob-webs from the weekend, and start fresh on a new week of discussions. I sincerely appreciate all of you that have made this blog a success. Remember, I can't do it without you. Thanks.......and with that said, Today's Question is .......

Has intimacy (sex) ever made you call in, go to work late, or leave early; when you knew, it was for NO other reason but a "booty call?" IF so, let us hear it and explain why this was the case. 

For me, let's just say I was young, care free and got a call that she was passing through town!! Only here for an hour or so to refuel!

Keep it honest, keep it entertaining, and keep it 100% real.

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com 

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Question of the Day.....

I would like to thank everyone for your participation in our First Fantasy Friday....It was GREAT !!!! So, today's Question is.....

What makes you happy in your relationship? At the end of the day, is it sex, is it togetherness, is it love? Exactly what makes you happy to be in the arms of another?

I hope to hear from you and I will leave today's question up for the weekend to allow your thoughts to marinate. Good Thinking and ........Let us Hear Ya!

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@Anatomyofacheater.com

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Question of the Day- 11.11.11.....Go to UStream.com and type in Anatomy of a Cheater to see me LIVE !

Because of our special evening planned tonight, I feel the need to set the tone.... Today's question is:


Describe your sluttiest moment! When you looked back and said to yourself, "that was a slut moment, if I do say so myself!" Me, well, let's just say mine involved 4 ladies (I'll explain later....)


Let me hear ya, and don't hold back! It's Friday....and the weekend is here!!!  Let's Go!!!

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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::GET YOUR QUESTIONS READY !!! I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU !!! IT'S THIRSTY THURSDAY!!

This is your time to talk...your time to vent.....I've been asking all of the questions...now it's your turn..!! Let's GO!!

The only rules I have is keep it REAL and Keep it SEXY! Ready, set......BLOG ! 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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THIRSTY THURSDAY !!!

GET YOUR QUESTIONS READY....ASK WHAT YOU WILL, MY ANSWER JUST MY SURPRISE YOU...OR NOT...

Question of the Day.....

With all the success from yesterday, let's keep that fire burning. So, we talked about scratching itches, Now, answer this......

What's the furthest you have ever traveled to get your itch scratched? In Ebonics (how far did you travel to get you Some?) AND ....... When you got there, was it WORTH it? 

The only rules I have is keep it REAL and Keep it SEXY! Ready, set......BLOG ! 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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Question of the Day.....

In my life, there was always someone who made my toes curl. In the sexual sense, someone who knew my needs and met them continuously. "Whew!" (wiping my brow) Today's question is.......

Do you have a secret "itch scratch-er?" Someone you may or may NOT still see that whenever you did interact with them, you knew it would be fireworks romantically? Someone who, even today, just the thought of them makes emotions crawl down your back! 

Come on, let's talk about it. Explain what they did to make you, "wipe your brow!" 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

WilliamsHjr@anatomyofacheater.com
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Question of the Day.....

In life and relationships, we rarely get a chance to "Do Things Over" or try it again. Last night, I witnessed my neighbors having a squabble which escalated to the authorities being called and each of them sleeping separate of one another! So, today's question is.........

IS there a past relationship that you wish you could "Do Over?" Share the intimacies of what happened and why it ended and why you care to try it again? 

Remember.... we all make some mistakes, today, for the sake of conversation, let's try to right a wrong!  

Come share with us and let's make this a fruitful exchange!

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H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

Question of the Day.....

Since it's Sunday, let's slow it down a bit and truly reflect on happiness. A happiness that makes us smile and enjoy the sincere comfort of another person. So, our Question for today is:

What is your favorite ROMANTIC past time with your significant other? What truly makes you feel connected when you are in the presence of the one you care for the most? 

Give me your heart, and let's really explore your ideas of being WHOLE with another! 

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H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

WilliamsHjr@anatomyofacheater.com

Question of the Day.....

It's the weekend, and since we can really think and have the time to sit at the computer and go back and forth, let's move towards physicality in relationships. So here is Today's Question........

IS THERE ANYTHING SEXUALLY THAT YOU CRAVE OR DESIRE THAT YOUR MATE WON'T DO? IF SO, WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE DEPRIVED; anger, arguments, infidelity, etc? 

Come on people, let's talk about it and stretch our voices through imagination. 

Chime in......

H. Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

::MARK YOUR CALENDERS::

Question of the Day.....

In life, do we ever receive the love and admiration from others we covet? Well, I would say in most situations, we settle and fall short of all the intangibles we feel we need to be whole and that leaves us longing for certain aspects of the true picture desired to complete our love circle. (hence, we cheat)

With that said: What are your requirements for LOVE ? If you could completely script your mate, tell me what he or she would have to possess, to make you feel whole?
Let me hear you, chime in and share your "deepest desires"; together we will explore the depths of your soul today!

H. Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Speaker,
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

Question of the Day

To All:

Let's use today to ponder our own involvement in extra curricular activities. What do I mean you ask, our question of the day is:

Have you ever Cheated on your significant other in any way and (here's the twist) ...... Why?
Give me your reason for doing it BUT, the only excuse you can't use is "Because my girl or guy cheated on me!"

Let me hear you and let's have a engaging discussion today !!! 

H. Williams, MBA
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
http://www.anatomyofacheater.com/
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Question of the Day......

To Women,

Is it important to understand the thought processes of a man? Sure it is, but from someone who will spill his guts and let you into our deepest darkest chambers of "know how!"

Cheating, infidelity, and falsehoods are a choice people make who lack transparency. IF you could ask a man any question at all and get the truth, what would it be?

Chime in, let me hear you.

H. Williams, MBA

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
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