A "Thug" and a "Gentleman" ...Our Question of the Week..??

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I noticed you don't do your blog as much as you use too but unlike most, I got a serious delimma over here! (smile) I'm kinda dating two guys at the same time. One is a "thug-type" who is sexing me beyond belief. He and I have been friends since high school but nobody truly know that we are more than just friends. He is my handyman around the house, and I rent the other side of his duplex that he owns. Our secret is, he comes over here late at night, to fix more than the pipes. Now, with that said, I have a boyfriend that I truly love and he finances my life to an extent. We have been dating for 2 years, and are on the verge of marriage. On the outside, I am trusted, loving, and a career woman, but my gentleman doesn't do it for me sexually because, he can't fix me like my thug, and he can't "Drill" like him. He surely is not tattooted up with the Timberlands and tank tops either;  My question .....

"Is what I'm going through really that unusual? Will I be able to walk away from my "thug" when my
boyfriend pop's the question? "Why or Why Not?"

Ma'am, it has been awhile but we are always here for our bloggers and fanz. I apologize for the absence, but Mr. Anatomy has alot of fires burning but your topic caught my attention so, YES, I will take your question. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. "Thug Luv" and allow my bloggers to give you their take before I show back up to give you mine. Please remain present for any questions they may have of you.

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Confused by my OWN addiction to Sex..... Our Question of the Day...?

Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I have a girlfriend whom I live with. She has one child, he is 8 yrs old. We have been together now for 2 1/2 yrs and she is recently divorced. She has been married twice before. I have never been married. Truth is, I am a sex addict. Every woman I see I visualize sex with them and how it would be..yay or nay. I want to settle down with my girl but something inside me is too lustful. It's like being single, I can't get anyone to mess with, but as soon as I get a girl, I get all this attention. It's like I can't say no. It's hard to find a woman who is a sex addict/freak like me. I seriously want it all the time and I seem to have a more fulfilling sex life when I mess with other women. I know cheating..is wrong but man it's so hard when your woman can't give you certain aspects of sex all that good but she balances it out by being a good woman to you. I know she is trying to get over her 10 yr marriage from her past, but in between time I'm finding my own muse;SEX. I guess my question is:

"Is there anybody out there who feels the same. Does anyone out there have a sex problem where you are horny all the time, but your significant other is not doing the job? HELP"

Sir, I don't claim to be an expert who legitimately deals with addition as you have professed, but I will allow my bloggers to answer your question. From hence forward, I will address you as Mr. "Confused." Please remain availble for any questions my bloggers may have for you and I will give my take a bit later.


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A Marriage of "NO Sex" Is there Help For Me? Our Question of the Day?

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 

From the outside looking in my life appears to be desirable. I have a husband, young child, whom I stay home with, a house, I'm a student and I also run my own small business. The problem is my marriage. We have been married for 4 years, together for 6, BUT the last time we had sex or any physical contact was on our wedding night when we conceived our child! Everything has fallen apart and now we can rarely hold a conversation without a fight. There has been another man whom I've dated, but due to busy schedules and sheer distance we mainly talk via phone and email. I haven't seen the other man in months. I'm questioning my marriage, I have gone to see an attorney but have not filed for divorce;Mainly because I'm scared to share my daughter and I have almost nothing because my husband is the main source of income in our house. My husband does not know about the other man but I feel like if I want my marriage to work then I can't lie. But if I tell him he will leave me immediately because he has made that very clear. I don't want the whole world knowing there was someone else but he would tell everyone including my parents. My Question is .......

"What do I do; do I tell my husband about the other man or not? That is not the reason my marriage is horrible."

In life, nothing ever works out the way we plan. I will attempt to help you through your dilemma but not before my bloggers give you their insight. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. "Sexless". Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have. Your ride starts NOW........!

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Am I Asking Too Much to have a Good Man? Question of the Day?

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
Ok given I'm not the perfect woman! I can turn a few heads, cook great meals, work multiple jobs, God-fearing, carry myself in a respectful manner, and of course I could go on and on. As I single woman I meet guys regularly but unfortunately I'm rarely attracted to any of them and no I'm not attracted to females. I simply want a manly man; you know the type that our grandmother's mother married. Chivalry was naturally a quality. The ones that take out trash everyday, fix things when they see something wrong, go to church with you, cook for you, rub your feet, surprise you with a "I love u card;" all because they really do! He holds your hand while he drives, send flowers because your day went bad or going great; dammit things that make you feel like a complete WOMAN at all times. I can reassure you I will be the most dedicated, submissive and qualified woman for that man that honestly acts like one. Until then should I limit my expectations or give up and settle for the immature boy that appears to be "mr perfect" because he is dressed nice or as these amateurs would say, "has swag." My Question is .....
"Do I need to lower my standards? Am I asking for too much?"

Ma'am.... our goal at Anatomy of a Cheater is to offer the best information available from people just like you who have experienced and learned! From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. Perfection. Please remain available to answer any questions my bloggers may have of you. After the bloggers, I will give you my Opinion!







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And YOU wonder why We do what We do .... Question of the Day?

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Mr. Anatomy,

I come to you with a heavy heart because in life, you always want to feel you have change inside of you. My story; I went away on a white collar crime for the duration of about 18 months. While away, I did some soul searching and had a long walk with myself about my past transgressions with women. I am a "Preacher's Kid" that always found joy in the pleasure of not just one woman, but the honesty in dating multiples. After my short stint away, I decided I would have a new lease on life, find one woman, and make her my world. As advertised, I did just that. Got a great job, worked my way up the ladder, and asked a lady of my dreams to marry me and currently we are engaged. We have been dating for 2 years, but engaged for 1 and recently, my mindset took a left turn. I was asked to lead a team to open a new restaurant in the Midwest so I left my "Atl" roots for about a month, while I dug deep into my career. Fiance' and I had an understanding, as NOW, we actually live together under one roof. While I was away, it seems the "Cat" wanted to play. The other night, while assisting my heavily intoxicated fiance' into bed, I was a gent and plugged her phone up on charge for the evening. When I did, a message notification popped up from her (Lesbian) co-worker wishing her a good night. Well, I did what I had NEVER done before and dug a little deeper into previous text messages. Low and behold, one read, "Look at me talking to you like we have never "P-lucked" before! To which my lady answered, "Yes we did, and it was good, and YOU know it's yours to have again!" My first reaction was to awake my drunk fiance' and get to the bottom of this, but I sat there and stared at her for what seemed like an eternity! When I finally came to terms with this, and questioned her, she said, "I thought you would be Okay with it, shit, it was a girl!" And I thought, "yeah, a Butch, at that!" My question is ............

"Should I feel bad about awakening the sleeping GIANT in myself again? I tried it the right way, and it seems I was kicked in the nuts like a do-good-er!" I feel disrespected and Bitch-slapped! I am about to do me again!


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It wasn't Even About Me........Naughty or Nice! Question of the Day...

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I had an amazing weekend where your slogan, "Adults do what Adults want to do" came into play. I traveled out of town to work and do some training. Lately, my life has been a microcosm of one up and down after another. I am a young person who has had to grow up and be a woman in every sense of the word. My relationship, while less than perfect, is just that, my relationship and somewhere between I-Do, and playing housewife, I have lost the very essence of how a woman should feel. Today, I played sexy-bad-gurl and I feel wonderful about it. In the course of 24 hours, I was in bed with 2 different men, neither of which were my husband and for once in my life, I feel rejuvenated! One man was a co-worker from a different area, while the other was an important VIP I know from the community. The first may have been expected because of innocent flirting that finally blossomed into an evening, but the other took me by surprise because it wasn't supposed to happen with this stoic, poker faced individual......but was WONDERFUL on all accounts. I guess my question is,

"Should a person ever have to make excuses for what happens in their life? While I don't ever expect this weekend to be repeated. Is there a lesson to be learn from my walk on the wild side?"

Ma'am, as always, I would like to thank you for bringing your question to our forum. I have an answer for you, but not before my bloggers give you an intuitive spin on your question. From hence forward, I will address you as "Mrs. Attention" as we discuss this openly and look for an answers to your question.

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He left me when I thought he LOVED me ..... Our Question of the Day...

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 
My life is spiraling out of control and I need a helping hand from you and your followers. I have been dating the same guy for over 6 years. We have invested in each other's lives from the very beginning and  we continued to love and respect each other right up until we decided to get married. He asked me to marry him in front of my family and his and together, we've been planning a wedding since last summer. However, in December we had a big fight about money and our priorities for the future. While I didn't think it was that big of a deal, he cancelled our engagement and started spending time at his best friends house because he said he needed some space to sort through his feelings. I was still seeing him and having sex.  In January, seeing him regularly became seeing him early in the week, and not on weekends! Then, out of no where, I didn't see him for one whole week. I called and called, but got no answer. Then, last Saturday, he finally returned my call and said something that has caused me to cry everyday, and take a leave of absence from work, as I type this to you. This Mother^#*ker said I got drunk and got married in Vegas!! Bullshit, I said....... Mr. Anatomy, my question is......

"Are men truly that heartless and cruel to leave one relationship for another and get MARRIED? How do I move forward when I am in deep depression from the hurt and shame?"

Ma'am, I am so sorry this has happened to you, but I see this as a sign of the times in relationships. Before I give you my spin, I will allow my bloggers to crack this open and share their views. From hence forward, I will refer to you as "Ms. Heartbroken." Please remain available for any questions my followers my have for you. 

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Should I Tell before He Does? ..... Our Question of the Day...

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
As we all do, I have a past, and mine is a bit checkered. 5 years ago, I was up against hard times and I started to sell my services as an escort in the rather large city I live in. I had a select few clients and I was always safe and discreet with all that I did. I was a single woman, without children and I always went to remote places. I haven't done anything like that for about a year now because I have my stuff together, a new man, and a great new job. I told all my clients that I have retired, so to say, so please don't contact me. Well, the other night, while at a business function with my new boyfriend, he introduced me to his boss. When his boss turned to shake my hand, I and he instantly realized we knew one another from my escorting days. My expression said it all, and when my boyfriend asked, I blatantly lied because I didn't know what else to say. Since I knew this man intimately, I told my boyfriend I knew him from church vaguely, but didn't offer anymore information beyond that. Every since that night, I have had an uneasy feeling about lying to my boyfriend. We have been open and honest about "most" things in our relationship, but being and escort has been hidden very deep inside me! My Question is ......

"Should I come clean about my past? Or leave it buried where it is. I am a completely different woman, but if my boyfriend finds out, I want it to be from me!"

Ma'am, thank you for bringing you issue to our forum. I will give your question my full attention, but not until after my bloggers, and followers have had a chance to chime in. From hence forward, I will refer to you as "Ms. Escort." Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have of you.

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Will the RING make things Change???? Our Question of the Day!

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Mr. Anatomy,
I didn't know if you were still accepting questions for your blog, but I am in need of your services in the worst way! I have been with my current boyfriend for about 3 years. Our relationship has been riddled with lies, deceit and some infidelity on both sides. I admit, I have stepped out too, but as a woman, I only ventured out because my boyfriend was not giving me the attention I needed. In the last year, however, we have both settled down and have gotten our relationship to a point where we both feel love has heeled our woes. But, Mr. Anatomy, yesterday, we went to the Obama Inauguration and at dinner last night, my boyfriend proposed to me in front of friends, family, and his work colleagues. I accepted but last night, while having sex, I couldn't help but stare at the ceiling and wonder, "is this really what I want?" I guess my question is ......

"After all this relationship has been through, will Marriage change our past and keep us moving in the right direction?"

Ma'am, I apologize, but I have been slacking heavily on my blog site due to heavy commitments in other areas of the "Anatomy Franchise" but my blog is what brought me the most notoriety so I will never totally abandon my roots. As for your question, I will allow my bloggers to take control and give you their opinion before offering my ideas at a later time. Please stay available for any questions my bloggers may have. We will address you as Ms. Engaged from hence forward.

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A Not so "Merry" Christmas for me... .Our Question of the Day....

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Mr. Anatomy,
Will you PLEASE post this question for me. I have a huge dilemma and have no clear answer in sight. I am a 27 year old man, and before I go into graphic detail, I know your followers are going to judge me as if this has never happened to anyone else. I have a girlfriend who I have lived with for over 3 years and we share a son together. Well, I have been cheating with a married woman who I met on my seasonal job at UPS. She called me last night and told me she has an STD and blamed her husband once she found out what it was. She said she took a chance that he was cheating, not really knowing what he would say but he apologized and they have both been treated. Now, I have to be treated to clear my drain pipe too. My question is ..........

"How the hell do I tell my "unsuspecting" Girlfriend/baby Momma that I may be carrying a STD without confessing I am cheating?" What my other lady did with her husband won't work on my lady cause I know she is faithful!! 

Oh what a web we weave.........! I definitely have a solution to your problem in more ways than one, but first, I will allow my dedicated bloggers to have a crack at solving your problem. From this point forward, we will address you as "Mr. Insensitive." Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have of you! 


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Why Is Love So Hard ....... Our Question of the Day.....?

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Mr. Anatomy,
I recently got a divorce from my husband after an up and down relationship of 10 years. I loved that man with all I had. I loved him through poverty, I loved him through infidelity, and most of all, I loved him through the loss of his parents which ultimately changed his life for the better. At the end of this relationship, I got all big and bad and demanded a divorce and he reluctantly granted me my wishes. Now, it's been a year and although I have started dating again, and have a full time man, I can't get my ex-husband out of my head. When he comes over to get the kids to take them back to his house with his new lady, I completely breakdown inside. When I make love to my boyfriend, I can't help but see my ex and that helps me complete the task at hand. (LMAO) My Question is.......

"How do I move forward and put my life back together when I can't stop thinking about my past. I was a fool for moving forward, but what's done is done, right? I miss that man sooooo much!" 

Ma'am, there is a song that describes your dilemma, "When you Tryin to Love Two"  and that is how I will explain your issue but, I have some more words for you. I have to let my bloggers have you first and I will come back with my advice. Please stay available for any question my bloggers may have. By the way, you are now Ms. "2Love" and we will address you as such! 

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IS it LOVE at First Sight.......? Our Question of the Day!

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 
I met a man at church last Sunday. He is new in town and recently divorced. We stood outside of the church for an hour or so talking and getting acquainted before deciding to make a date for the movies later in the day. Mr. Anatomy, we have truly hit it off and although I have never believed in Love at First Sight, I am starting to make a believer out of myself. I am a woman of Christian virtue but I am not perfect. He seems genuine and just as much into me as I am into him. I guess my question is .........

"Is it possible to meet a man and know instantly this is the person I would like to spend the rest of my life with? Will you ask your bloggers to share any similar experiences with me? 

Thanx for bringing your question to our forum. I have a little experience in meeting, greeting, and dating early and I will share my thoughts with you just as soon as my bloggers have had their time with you. I will address you as Ms. "LoveStruck" from hence forward and please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have of you. 

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Men do it, why Can't Women?...... Our Question of the Day!

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I am a successful author of several books and I travel the country speaking to people about investing and growing their wealth for the future. I have been single since I was 28 after a rough divorce from my husband. Now I am 39. Currently, I'm not dating because dating ends friendships. Recently I was in Milwaukee, WI. and I caught the last of a radio interview you did on the Michael Dresser show. In that interview, you said you were a reformed serial cheater and you can help men be the same. Well, what about the woman who don't trust men at all? Can you help us too? All I do is travel, meet business associates and call my "Guy of the moment" for that city to keep me tuned up. Yes, it's a lonely life, but I don't allow myself to get caught up where feelings are involved! With this approach, my voice mail is always filled with, "Why did you leave without waking me up?" My Question is........

"Am I wrong for loving men and then leaving them until I need them again? Some of the men say my approach is confusing. I say, it's sex, hugging, and catching a plane!"

Ma'am, while the franchise of Anatomy of a Cheater never judges, I do have a bit  insight as to why you are leaving these encounters the way you do. From this point forward, I will address you as Ms. "Financial" and allow my bloggers to speak first before I chime in. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have. 

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**How does a woman Break the Hold that "LIFE" has over You......!**

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 

I have read so many stories like mine on your blog. Stories of unhappiness and disappointment from decisions I've made to stay in a relationship that is going no-where. As I send this email with tears in my eyes, I need your valued bloggers to walk me through the pain. I have been with my husband for over 12 years and we initially got married because I got pregnant and my family insisted I do the right thing and marry the father of my child. Now, a total of 3 children later, I feel like I am locked in a glass cage with no way out of my life. I am educated, attractive, and successful in my own career, I just like to LOVE my husband, but I can honestly say I am not in love with him. He is a great guy, great provider, but there is absolutely no passion that makes my eyes roll back in my head. For me, foreplay means nothing even as he tries to perform it. My Question is......

"Is this all life has to offer by way of love and relationships? I am spiritual and I've been to counseling where I've tried to find reasons to make this work, but what happens when it just doesn't work. Will God forgive me for giving up?"

Ironically, this is a scenario described to me all too often. The story of the young lady who marries early, has the family but seeks more by way of understanding in her own life. I do have a plan for women like you, but as always, my bloggers will speak first and I will follow with my assessment. From hence forward, you will be addressed as "Ms. Emotion" as we look for a solution to your issue. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have for the next 3 days.

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On the Down Low..but Somebody Has to Know! Our Question of the Day.

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,

I have done something that is strangely out of character for a man of my statue but I truly don't know how to stop this awful behavior. I would like to be life coached and now that you have my email address, I was hoping my first stop would be your blog to see if anyone else have gone through what I am. I am a man who have achieved a lot of success on many levels and women have never been a problem for me. I have been faithful in my 7 year marriage and I am certain she has too. My problem is I have been seeing another man for about 3 months. What started as some dumb type of fun, has become something I look forward to once or twice a week. I know a lot will be said and I was directed to your site by a really good friend of mine here on the west coast who you know well! Although I am being safe in my other activity, I am still having "relations" with my wife as well. My Question is ......

"Is there a psychological term for what I am going through? I am in my mid 40's, healthy and vibrant, but I can't understand how this has entered my life! Does this mean I am homosexual?" 

Sir, from hence forward, I will address you as Mr. Inappropriate to outline the fact that you are dealing with two people of the opposite sex, with one being your legal wife. I have a mouthful to say, but I will allow my bloggers to have first "voice" and I will chime in later. Please remain available for any questions that may be asked of you. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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How STUPID can we be......! Our Question of the Day.

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Mr. Anatomy,
I am probably one of the few men that have read your book and agree with the hunger of men and their obsession to cheat. Why is it we have to have things that are totally off limits to us? You said it best when you said a man knows exactly what we want from a woman when we meet them for the first time. I am married, and have been for 17 years. My wife and I have had our ups and downs but through it all, we have continued to make it and forge ahead. About 4 months ago, my wife's best friend moved in with us after leaving her husband in California. She came back down south to get back on her feet. She and my wife were childhood friends but her friend wears it a lot better than my wife does. Looking at her, I see what my wife use to look like 10 years ago and 50 lbs lighter. The best friend and I have been sleeping with each other for 2 months non stop and I feel this is getting out of control. The problem is, my wife's friend says if I stop sleeping with her, she is going to tell my wife about everything and then will come on to her too. She says my wife was a freak back in college and they shared very intimate moments back then and she thinks she can stir those feelings back up with my wife if I stop sleeping with her! My Question is ..........

"What the hell have I gotten myself into. Like you asked of "Diamond" in your book, is this lady the devil? It seems I can't stop this even if I wanted to."

Sir, you have definitely gotten yourself in some deep quicksand and the more you wiggle, the more you sink. However, you've come to the right place. My bloggers and I will help you steer clear of this mess. From hence forward, your blogger name is Mr. Scared because she definitely has you on the run. Please stay available to answer any questions my bloggers may have. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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Don't Ask......I won't Tell ! Our Question of the Day ..

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
The other day, I got a text from a lady who wanted to know why my number was in her boyfriend's phone over and over again for a period of 2 weeks. After figuring out what guy she was referring to, I asked her to call me and I filled her in on exactly why her boyfriend was reaching out to me. I told her I met her boyfriend on a dating website and after going out on a couple of dates, we had sex; after which we text'd a few times and then the relationship faded. Of course, he never told me he was seeing anyone. My question is simple......

"When women find it in themselves to reach out to a woman through their man's phone, don't we as women have a civic duty to be honest?" 

Ma'am.... everyone sees exposing their intimate antics differently. While I have a full opinion, I reserve the right to answer your question after my bloggers have had a chance to address your concern. From hence forward, your blog title is Ms. "Imma Tell it" and please stay close to our blog for the next 3 days in case our bloggers have questions.

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I am LYING to the Man I LOVE......! Our Question of the Day

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Dear Mr. Anatomy, 
I am living a lie and I really don't know how to get myself back to respectability. I have been living a life of celibacy and telling the guy that I've been dating that the reason we are not having sex is I am cleansing my life and walking with GOD! However, I am lying and I have been secretly seeing my ex boyfriend who lives down the street a few miles. My boyfriend visits and shortly after he leaves, my ex boyfriend stops by to "take care" of my needs. The other night, my boyfriend came back to give me money for lunch and he didn't call. My ex boyfriend ran toin my daughters room, and had to hide for over 2 hours until my boyfriend left. I feel so bad, but I am addicted to my ex but he has a woman and child. My question is......

"How do I handle this volatile situation before it boils over? My boyfriend is a great guy, but Mr. Anatomy, I have lost myself in physical sex and love!"

Ma'am, Mr. Anatomy never judges, just answers the questions that are before me. Volatile is definitely the correct word to use. From hence forward, your blog name is Ms. "No-Sex" and after my bloggers give you their opinion I will follow with my response. Please remain available for any questions my followers may have. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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