Tuesday, October 28, 2014

How do I leave a Cheater without breaking down?...Question of the Day

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I have a problem. Without making this story long and drawn out, I know my man is cheating on me. We live together and have an adorable child together. This weekend was my man's birthday and our goal was to spend it together. Friday night, he disappeared to get a haircut, not unusual, but he didn't return until Saturday morning. Saturday, he worked until 1:00 PM and got home around 6. We had a few words because I was resting after being out with the baby at a fall festival. Sunday we were supposed to go to church as a family, but plans changed and he went to an NFL game. Well, since Sunday was his birthday, I understood he wanted to hang out with his friends, so I didn't get bent out of shape however, I didn't hear from him again until I was headed to work on Monday morning. So Monday (yesterday) I got all dolled up to take him to dinner, and got the baby dressed, but he didn't come home until 8:00 PM and the baby goes to bed at 7:30. I was over it, so I went to bed around 9. He came to bed at 5:30 A.M. this morning. While getting the baby dressed for daycare ...... "yes, I did it," I went through his phone that was hidden under the covers and my worst fears were realized; His entire weekend in "text! It told a graphic story of not just me, but 2 other women, and he has an ex-girlfriend pregnant. Mr. Anatomy, I'm done but my question is .......................

 "How do I handle what I've seen? How do I walk away without completely falling apart. He has NO idea that I've been in his phone, I just left home headed to work, but inside I'm a mess!" 

Dear 'Secret Agent' ...... let me first tell you how sorry I am that you have gone through such a tumultuous weekend. That is enough to drive anyone insane. Today, I do you a favor, I will turn you over to my Strong Women, my bloggers and they will tell you how to handle your next few steps. Personally, I am glad you didn't go off the deep end without a plan. Stay tuned for their responses! 



Hurchel Williams, MBA
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Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 
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Tuesday, September 9, 2014

"How Do you Know You're Bi-Sexual" - Question of the Day

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I have tried on numerous occasions to get my story heard and to grab your opinion but I'm not sure if you still have your advice column active. I will try one final time to seek your help! I have not dated a man in over 2 years. It seems every relationship I've entered, always ended with them cheating, or me finding out they just wasn't who they said they were; so much so, that it became frustrating to me. Well, I'm single, no children and happiness has eluded me. I have a best friend who was going through the exact same thing with men and we have become each other's sounding board and hang-out partners. The other day, we were talking, and out of the blue, she asked me to go to a "Sex Toy" store to help her pick out a new vibrator. Well, long story short, while there, she said, "We are both not having sex, why don't we become each other's man?" Neither of us have EVER done anything like this but since that day, I started thinking, is this something I want to try? We are regular girls with careers, both attractive but for some reason, remain alone. Mr. Anatomy, my question is .....
"How does attraction work with the same sex? I enjoy spending time with her and she is a rock for my life, but do I want to venture down this road? I'm open, but confused!"

Dear "Open but Confused," I'm sorry for the delay, but I have taken a break from my advice column to focus on the release of my 2nd book, however, your persistence has grabbed my attention. I will assemble my best bloggers from the past, have them give you advice, then I will close with my opinion. Please stay available for any questions my bloggers may have of you!


Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
Author, Anatomy of a Cheater
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Monday, March 10, 2014

What are My Options ............... Our Question of the Day ??

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
My life has to change. I met a guy 7 years ago at work and everything I thought about him turned out to be a lie. When we met, we were both married but separated from our significant others and moving towards being with one another. We now have a 2 year old son who is the center of my world, but that is the only thing that has gone right! My man never stays the night, or can be reached after 11:00 PM. When I call him on the weekends, he says we can't talk because his head is always hurting. He has never taken our son on his own longer than 3 hours. When I question anything that is out of the norm, I become a whore, bitch, etc and he scares me and my other (2) children. I want to leave this relationship but he threatens to take my son away and that is my joy. He recently put me in the hospital with physical abuse. Mr. Anatomy ........

"I don't know how I got in this deep, but my question is how do I get out of this relationship without being harmed in some way?
Thank you for bringing your issue to our forum. From hence forward, I will address you as "Troubling Situation" and allow my bloggers to interact with you directly before giving you my opinion on your matter. Please stay available for the next few days to answer any questions my bloggers may have of you.


Hurchel Williams, MBA
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Wednesday, February 19, 2014

"Will I Ever Find Happiness .......Question of the Day ??"

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I am a man that can't find the right woman to save his LIFE! I mean, I have a great job, I am educated, consider myself attractive, and have many options for women, but when I start dating them, I find something about them that doesn't allow me to move forward. Like anyone else, I love a beautiful, smart, independent woman, but after about 8 months of dating, it gets boring, and I am looking for the next point of excitement. Am I different from most, or am I just in the rat race of dating? In the past, I have always dated multiple women to get my "fix" but I am truly ready to find someone to make me happy and fulfilled. I was married too early and from that, I have a beautiful family of children that are the center of my world. I just want the next chapter to begin. My question is .....
"Where is true happiness, and how on earth do you pick the right woman to be a solemate?"









First and foremost, thank you for allowing my bloggers and I the opportunity to tackle your question. From hence forward, I will address you as "Unhappiness" as we try to help you decipher your feelings. Please remain available and ready to answer any questions my bloggers may have for you.

Hurchel Williams, MBA
Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker
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