Is it "My Business??" Friday - Sat - Sunday - Question of the Day .......

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I work with the (Not gonna Say it) school district at one of the high schools. Well, the other day, I was leaving after a late evening meeting with the office staff. I got half way home, and realized I left my purse on the office counter when I signed out. When I got back, I heard a strange noise coming from the principal's office so I went closer to investigate. When I peeked in the door, the principal and the office administrator were on his desk having sex. Shocked, I close the door and quietly gathered myself before leaving. The principal is single, the administrator is married, and I am single too. I have been trying to get the principal to notice me for months, but now I know why he has been dismissing my advances. I am so mad. I'm a plus size lady, and she's an anorexic whore. My Question is ..........

Should I expose this relationship to everyone at work or just leave it alone? I am pretty upset because that behavior is inappropriate for work. What should I do Mr. Anatomy? 

This situation is hilarious and I will give you my opinion once my bloggers have had time to digest this. Bloggers, start your engines!! 

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Love MY Child or Lose your Wife ~ Tues - Wed - Thurs - Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy,
My Question is about my husband and the relationship he has with our son. When I met my husband, I was 6 months pregnant. Part of his approach to me was "I want to raise your unborn child as if he is my own!" I thought that was such a special thing to say to a woman considering his biological father is a complete Non-factor. We were married and began our life as husband and wife. Now, a year and a half later, that person who promised to be a father to my son, is not living up to his promise. He does NOT treat my son like his own, he makes differences in my son versus his real children from a previous relationship. It is so obvious that other people see it and privately ask me if he even loves my child? I am a Black lady and my husband is White. Our son is black and his other children are bi-racial. He admits there is a problem, but nothing has changed. My Question is .............

Is this grounds to leave my husband and ask for a divorce? I love him, but my child's happiness comes first! What should I do?

Ma'am, this is truly a touchy subject and I have agreed to accept your question in an effort to let our bloggers help sort through the maze you are dealing with in your life. I will offer my opinion after everyone else has had a say.


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My "Pastor" is a Player ...... Sun ~ Mon ~ Tuesday's Question of the Day.....

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Mr. Anatomy,
I'm mad as hell, and I am NOT going to let him get away with this! I attend (Not Gonna Do it) in (Not Gonna Say it) and my cousin confided in me yesterday that she is having a physical affair with the associate Pastor of our church ! He's the next in charge at the church, and he's behaving like a teenager. She's 24 and he is 49 and married. I am so mad, I want it to be known. She swore me to secrecy but my lil cousin is in love with him but he tells her the time is not right to leave his wife! But wait, Mr. Anatomy, the bad part about it is, I am involved with him too and he told me the same thing! My cousin has no idea he and I are sleeping together too. I am 2 steps from telling our Pastor about all of this and exposing everything. My Question is ...................

How do I handle this without hurting innocent people not involved? Do I tell, do I shut up, What? Mr. Anatomy, please help me?

Wow, this is a very volitle situation and frankly I have some advice, but it may not suit your needs. I will let everyone else give you their opinion, then I will divulge mine.

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I'm in a "REAL LOVE Tri-Angle" .... Thurs - Fri - Sat * Question of the Day..*

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Mr. Anatomy,

I'm in a 3-Way love affair! I live with man (A) that adores me. He gives me everything he feels I need and want.  He offers safety with some security but has his issues. He drinks heavily, and sometimes his finances are a bit shaky, but I love him. - -The second guy (B) and I dated for 7 years and it was a whirl-wind romance! He can be controlling, with his, "call me when you are running late, or where are you" type mentality. In our years of dating, he never truly committed or took me off the market so after being together for so long, I left and met the guy I currently live with. However, my heart is still with guy (B) because I'm "in LOVE" with him. Yes Mr. Anatomy, I have started back sleeping with guy (B) and he is asking me to leave my new man and he promises to give me everything I need once we are together again. Both are older men. My Question is .......

Mr. Anatomy, what do I do? I am highly confused because I love guy (A) but guy (B) and I have so much time invested. Intimacy is good with (a) when we do it, but (b) has my heart, soul, and attention during sex! HELP ME !!!

This is definitely a topic to ponder. Here at the Anatomy of a Cheater Franchise, we never judge, just offer ways to help with your dilemma. Bloggers, have at it, let's show "Ms. 3-Way" why stopping here was the answer to her prayers !!!!!

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Married to the "Church!" Serious Question for Mon - Tues - Wed - ........?

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Mr. Anatomy.....

My Girlfriend in Memphis calls you "Dr. Phil of the Internet" and your followers keep it REAL! She says you have answered some really bazaar questions, so I have a serious one for you. I live in the Northeast and it get's real cold here! My husband is a Pastor and has been for several years. It's hard to talk about intimacy with him. I want to "warm" the bedroom a bit but he is from old time "down South" and is very traditional. I'm the second wife and I'm considerably younger. (the first wife passed on) My Question is...

How can the "First Lady" introduce some heat in the bedroom without being too disrespectful to a man who keeps it missionary?

Ma'am.... your friend gave you some good advice, and I thank her tremendously!! Bloggers, let's help her out but let's try to be very respectful to her situation and husband's position. Have at it!!! 

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Excited and Confused ..... Fri - Sat - Sunday .. Our Weekend Question ......

Mr. Anatomy, 

I have a "huge dilemma" and I could use some advice. I've been invited to take a weekend trip with my supervisor to Las Vegas. I have never been to Vegas and really want to go. The problem is, he has a girlfriend who I've met, but don't really know that well. He says it's over with them but my friend saw them out yesterday holding hands and being close. My Question is .......

Should I go to his girlfriend and ask her if their relationship is over before taking this cross country trip to Las Vegas? Or, should I stop being 'stuck up' and live a bit?

Well bloggers, here is one for you to ponder. I have my ideas, but I seriously wish you guys would chime in before I give it a go. Let me know what you think!

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Can I Walk Away ..... Mon ~ Tues ~ Wed ~ Question of the Day ......

Mr. Anatomy, 

My Question for you is serious. I am lost in a relationship that I no longer want to be in. I have been married for 16 years and the marriage has completely run its course. We are just taking up space in one another's life and I don't know how to get out. Please don't tell me to get counseling, or turn to my faith, none of  that will work. I want a loving relationship where I matter to a man again like I matter to myself. I want to feel like a teenager in love and not just a mother and housewife.  Everyone thinks we are so happy, but when the doors are closed, life sucks!! My question is ..........

How do I get out of a relationship that I've been in my whole adult life, without affecting my kids negatively? I want OUT now!! Please help Mr. Anatomy.

Wow, I feel the strong conviction of this question and although I've had it about a week, I wanted it to be the beginning of a week so our bloggers could face it with fresh thoughts. Women that have been in this situation, have at it. I will say my peace and clear the runway for others! 

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"Should I or Shouldn't I" ..Fri ~ Sat ~ Sunday ~ Question for the Weekend

Mr. Anatomy,

I met a guy on a "Christian Dating Website" and while I try to  follow the teachings of the bible, I am still a human woman. I have been dating this guy for 4 months now and he refuses to have premarital sex. We're discussing a future, but marriage is still a little ways away. My Question is .........

"How do I tell my Christian friend I want to have sex? This is 2012 and my body has needs!" 

This is a very touchy subject, but, like with all questions, I don't judge individuals and the way they think. I just offer my honest opinion as to how I feel about the topic. Bloggers, start your engines and tell me how you feel about her dilemma. 

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Am I a Sucker For Love ...Tues ~ Wed ~ Thursday Question of the Day

Mr. Anatomy, 

You rarely have questions just for "US" men, so I got a very simple one that I want ladies to really answer. I have this lady friend who I talk to sometimes and I have always liked. Deep down inside, I don't think she likes me 'at all' but every now and again, I get a call where she invites me out to dinner. Well, when dinner is over, the check is always slid over to me. My Question is this ............

"Am I just a free meal to this lady? Do women really only call us when they are hungry for a good restaurant?"

You know what Mr. Man-type......, that is a really good question that I'm sure other men would like to know the answer to. We have all been through it and since our questions have been really serious of late, I thought this was a really good one to slow things down.  Happy Bloggin! 

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Did I fail My Child.........Question of the Day Fri ~ Sat ~ Sunday......

Mr. Anatomy, 

Without too much detail, I would like your opinion on my son's sexuality. My son went to a program where it was supposed to help at risk boys with their behavior prior to entering manhood. Well, I recently found out he was sodomized with a broom handle while taking a shower by a group of boys. My son is now confused about his sexuality. I am beginning to feel like a failure if my son is gay. I don't know why but in my mind it is OK for a girl to be with a girl, but not a guy with a guy. Maybe that can be a question of the day......(Our Question of the Day is)......

Why is it I feel that way and do others feel as I do about men vs women in same sex situations?

For me, it's not too often I know my subjects, but in this case, I have watched this child grow into adult hood. This tells me this could have happened to anyone, so I will advise in a very delicate fashion as I proceed. Dive in Bloggers and share your knowledge. 

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Am I Gay or Am I Confused ...... Mon - Tues - Wed - Question of the Day ...

Mr. Anatomy,

I appreciate you allowing me to come back to your blog site to address the mass confusion of gay / bi sexual men. I am the twin, Matthew from a few topics ago who interacts with men, but dodge the titles society has placed on me. I'm Not Gay, I'm Not on the Down-low, I'm just living my life.... My question is .......

Why must I be labeled as anything? I have a man friend in my life, but if I choose to date a woman, Isn't that my Choice? 

Well bloggers, he returned so I thought I would start the week with a very controversial topic in an effort to allow TWIN to answer all of your questions. Please, keep it respectful, but get out what you seek! 

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Bigger is Beautiful, Right? Weekend Scramble .....Question of the Day...

Mr. Anatomy,

I am a larger woman who have my sights set on a guy who, I think, normally dates smaller women. I think I have all the moves of the next lady, and the looks too but often times my confidence isn't always there. My Question is .......

IF a man normally dates smaller, more defined bodied women, will he change his taste and date a larger woman? 

I honestly believe this is a really good question. I have known this to be the case in several situations and I look forward to the feedback. Let me hear you bloggers!

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Chase the World, not the Girl...Tues ~ Wed ~ Thur...Question of the day

Mr. Anatomy, 

You never have "man questions" so I hope this gets posted. I have a problem with being alone. I have been a "sex fanatic" for years, but now I think I want to settle down and be with one lady. The problem is, I keep meeting women and it's not until after I sleep with them, I know whether I like them or not! If I don't like them, they have to leave immediately. If I do like them, I want to be around them and make them special. Problem is, there are few special ones, and more sex partners.  My Question is .......

How do I break the bad habit of wanting to be intimate with all the "Hott" women I meet?

Mr. "Man Whore," the term is Monogamy.....and I have several questions for you myself, so I will select your question. I have been where you are going and the ride comes with a lot of discomfort until such time "your plane" lands! Let's let the bloggers dance before I comment! Have fun everyone! 

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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Can't Grow NO-MORE......The Weekend Wreck...Question of the Day....

Mr. Anatomy,

My heart is aching over this decision. After speaking with other women, I realized I am not the only one going through something with my soon to be husband; or maybe NOT! His "man part" is really small and he is a 15 second man, I am not an oral person so I am just frustrated! He is such a good man and excellent provider; My Question is .......

What do I do regarding my future with him if satisfaction can't be achieved?  

To my bloggers, I struggled over whether or not to put this question up in its present state. I do have my opinion on this question, but I will first let our bloggers ponder it before I render my response. Share your heart with the blog! 

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Can a "1 nite stand" be a Girlfriend..Tues ~ Wed ~ Thurs Question of the Day..

Mr. Anatomy, my friends and I want your opinion on something that may help us solve a debate we are having. This may possibly be your ....Question of the Day.....

Do Guys ever date a girl that sleeps with them on the first Date ?

Sadly, this question is near and dear to me, because YES, I was that girl. Met him in New Orleans, one thing lead to another and "bingo-BANGo" we were in bed!

Alright Bloggers, let's help this young lady with our opinions. We don't judge here, we just tell the facts as they relate to the subject. Let me hear ya!

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Lady on the Edge...... Sat ~ Sun~ Monday... Question of the Day.....

Dear Anatomy,

I have been referred to you by a good friend of mine. She says putting my question out there might help me get some clarification with my issue.

Here is goes!! My husband and I have been married for over 8 years and things are definitely at a breaking point.When we got married 8 1/2 years ago I would have never thought this man, whom I respected as a man, would turn into the biggest loser, in my eyes!! About 3 years ago my husband got into an altercation with a guy at a club on the west coast. Well, no charges were ever filed, that we knew of, at that time. March 2011 there was a search warrant out for his arrest from this altercation and the cops came to pick him up. He was later released but the charges were not dropped. After the long journey of court dates we found out that he will only serve community service and 3 years probation. I said all of that to say....Although he has a charge on his record, that does not mean life has STOPPED!!! Bills are still due, children have many needs and our bellies need to be fed. This man has a Masters degree in Biology. He feels like its his right to have a perfect opportunity handed to him. If he can not work in the same field that he was in prior to the arrest, he will not do it. I mean it has gotten truly horrible that he's not trying at all. I would respect him more if he would just work at McDonald's, a Donut shop, walk some dogs or something that doesn't require a background check. I just want him to be a man. I am starting to learn there are two types of men in this world. A MAN that is the sole provider for his family and a man that acts as a lil bitch!!! I am at my wits end because he finds no shame in asking his parents, my parents, my sister and friends for money. I now have a friend at work and I don't think I want to go back to my husband because his actions are disgusting me. One last thing, I don't knock him or put him down in his face so that's why I'm seeking advice. Please Anatomy, what do I do?

Sincerely,

Struggling to Respect

H. Williams, MBA

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The Cougar and the Cub ........ Thurs ~ Friday ~ Question of the Day...

Mr. Anatomy, I've been dating this younger guy for about 4 months and while his total obsession of me was cute in the beginning, I am starting to think that maybe my cub is a little too dependent on the Cougar ..... Today's Question Is ......... 

Urban Cougar: An older woman, typically early thirties to mid-forties, who has abandoned traditional rules of romantic engagement to pursue a younger man as her target!

Is it normal for a younger guy to "Always" want to be around when dating a "Cougar?"

There is a 10 year difference with my man, and I swear, every time I leave home and try to visit my friends in a social setting, my cub wants to tag along. At first it was so cute, but I'm starting to think I've done something to him that may have scarred him for life.

Hurchel Williams, MBA 

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Temptation is testing me ! .... Mon ~ Tues ~ Wed Question of the day..

Mr. Anatomy, my relationship has hit a wall and it has been at this stand-still for quite sometime. Last week, a new Co-Worker of mine actually made an advance at me and it felt so good to be noticed by someone. My Question is ............

It pains me to roll over and make love to my husband, but I'm tingling for a true outsider/stranger at work to touch my body. What's happening to me? Am I being tested? 
(Tempted and Willing!)

Lately, I've been getting several questions from bloggers and since my audience has grown significantly, I allow the masses to assist with answering my questions. With that said, go ahead group, tackle this one! 

 Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Tell Me Why this Has Happened .......... Question for the Weekend ....

Sometimes I get questions from Bloggers that I feel have the "strength" to be my Question of the day. This one came in from someone I actually know. She wanted me to address it to you, my audience. With that said, Today's question is ..........

My husband has a daughter with another lady. Oct. of last year, he left our house to live with her and only comes home during the day to check on me and my 2 children. However, 2 weeks ago, he slowly worked his way back to my bed permanently and now only goes there to "check" on them. Why has this happened, what do you think is going on?

Of course, I have my opinion, but I will save that until such time everyone else has had a chance to dive into our question and give her an opinion from both sides. Happy Blogging. 

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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Am I a Priority ?........Tues ~ Wed ~ Thursday, Question of the Day.....

In life we always want to be important to someone, so much so, we sometimes feel we are more to someone than we may truly be..........Today's Question is ........

Are you thinking you are more to someone than you are? What are you doing to make yourself a priority in their life? Here's a hint, "sex ain't enough!"

Often times we get comfortable thinking sex, affection, and just being in someone's life is enough to keep the relationship viable. To that, I say, dig deeper and find a sustainable solution to how both people should feel so there are NO questions who we are to each other. Let me hear your thoughts !!!! 

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The Things "We Do!" Sat ~ Sun ~ Monday....Question of the Day ......

When in a relationship, often times both parties do and say things to express themselves and make their counterpart feel a certain way. With that in mind, let's explore those 3 magical words. Today's Question is.........?

Why do we say "I Love You" to someone we are in a relationship with when it's clear we don't? I mean, granted, we may have a strong liking, but LOVE, come on ...... you just met them on Tuesday and this is Friday !!!!

Talk to me people. What triggers these false feelings so early after meeting another person? I just wanna know, talk to me, and explain why?

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A Question of Judgement ...... Wed - Thurs - Friday's Question of the Day

When you are dealing with the truth of someone's past, is it right to judge them? Often times I speak in riddles or even in poetic review in a means to garner a stronger understanding. My weekend shook me at my core, "Homelessness now has a face" so today's Question is.....

If my heart was Gold, but tarnished along the Way, are you telling me it can't be polished for the future, in an effort to change my life for a better Day ? 

This speaks to the propensity of others to judge you because of your past. Until you walk a mile in someone's shoes, don't judge them. Underneath, they are the same as they have always been. Whether homeless, disenfranchised, or just on hard times! 

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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A Different Direction ......... A Question of Sincere Pain of Others ........

Today will take us off guard, just as the situation caught me off guard. I was sitting in a coffee shop late last evening and I look up at a familiar face in an unfamiliar situation! Today's Question is........

What's your feeling when you witness someone you know completely out of character and your eyes lock with each other? Is it pain, is it Sorrow, or is it total disbelief?

I will open the discussion so you completely understand that this situation is NOT what you may think. In life, there are some things we should see, and there are some situations that need our assistance. Open your heart and let your voice be heard !!!!

H. Williams, MBA 

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Question of the Day...... Thursday and Friday ..........

The Mighty Clouds of Joy said it best when they sang "I've Been in the Storm.......Too Long!" It's an old Gospel song, but let's make it relevant today! Today's Question is ...................."

Is it EVER OK to go back to a relationship/marriage that you previously left, and try it again? Why or Why Not?

There are a couple of people on my "life coaching" list that are currently pondering this question. With total anonymity, I share this with the blog to seek different perspectives from the masses. Let us hear your voice!

H. Williams, MBA 

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker, 

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

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Monday - Tues - Wednesday ----- Question to Ponder ......

Love and the purpose of a committed relationship is a good thing. Often times when we find it, the acceptance gives your core a warm and secure feeling. With that thought in mind, today's Question is.......

In your best explanation possible, what gives you a warm and committed feeling for another human being? What makes you feel safe when a sincere connection is made?

Take us to the depths of your mind, take us to your water, then allow us to drink. Tell it only the way YOU can about Self; We're waiting!!! 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

https://www.facebook.com/anatomyofacheater71

Daily Question for Wed-Thurs-Friday ! Question of the Day ........

Love, sex, and Marriage ......... NOT !! Like the Show on HBO's Big Love .........

"Could you date multiple Men/Women and make it work?" This topic was on Good Morning America and Polyamorous Societies are popping up all over America; What do you think?

Let me hear your voice. I try to keep our blogging society on the cutting edge of what goes on around us!

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater 

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

https://www.facebook.com/AnatomyofaCheater71

New Year's Eve ~ New Year's Day ----Question of the Day ..........

Typically, with a New Year comes a New Direction with a New Attitude. Today, let's keep it simple. Today's Question.......(finish this sentence)

With life and my relationship, this year (2012) I plan to ....................?

Let it all hang out. If you are feeling it, let us know about it. Have a great start to your new year and your new life! 

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

email: Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

https://www.facebook.com/AnatomyofaCheater71

When We love you, we ........? Question for Thursday and Friday....

Scenario; I am in one of my many cities for work; a member of my sponsor team invites me out for a drink with she and her boyfriend. I noticed, the whole night, she is very attentive to his needs. She rubs his back, his neck, fetched popcorn from the bar, and is always at an arms reach; my assessment, "He could care less about her continued affection! Finish this Statement for our question of the day.......

When in a relationship, "When we love you, we show it by ...?"

Share your heart with me because there are so many ways to say those 3 words but sometimes we just don't take the time or show the effort to reciprocate!

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

The ultimate Regret ....... Question for Tuesday and Wednesday.........

Whenever we get afraid, or do something that is totally unmentionable, we have a tendency to call on a "higher power!" Typically, It sounds something like this: today's Question is to finish this sentence......

Lord, If you let me out of "this," I promise, I won't do anything like this again. My Question, what is the "This" in reference to your life??? Did you ever do it again ???

H. Williams, MBA

Life Coach, Motivational Relationship Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays To all..........Question of the Day

Let's keep it simple as we reflect on who we truly are. Today's Question..............

Can you look back in your past and find one or two circumstances that altered the way your life turned out? 

Often times People judge us and don't quite understand our plight......help us understand the events that shaped your life. Let us hear your hearts.

H. Williams, MBA 

Life Coach,  Motivational Relationship Speaker,

Author, Anatomy of a Cheater

Williamshjr@anatomyofacheater.com

http://twitter.com/anatomyofacheat