Good Sex or Routine Touching...? Fri - Sat - Sun - Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I read somewhere where some of your talents include relationship counseling and sex therapy. When I saw that report and read some of the questions your followers asked, I let my guard down as a man, to find out the fundamental things that make a woman curl her toes. My girl and I have been dating for 5 years and we are committed to one another but when we make love, I can't help but feel like it's routine and we have both become complacent with trying to make it better. She and I don't talk about it but I know I have lost some of the magic from years ago. My Question is ........ 

"How do you truly know your woman is being pleased during sexual intercourse? What can I do to assure a positive sexual relationship long into the future?" 

The Franchise of Anatomy of a Cheater takes great pride in helping the masses find the best of who they are and then pull it to the forefront of who a person may become. Yes, as you have outlined, sexual therapy and counseling is one of the services that I incorporate under my umbrella. From hence forward, I will address you as Mr. "Man-Answers" and give you my full attention once our bloggers have had an opportunity to offer their opinions. Please remain available for 3 days to any question our forum may have. 


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"Three's Company, Four is Comfort!" Tues- Wed- Thurs - Question of the Day...

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Mr. Anatomy,
Since I have been a dedicated blogger since the very beginning of your successful "blog launch" can I please move to the front of the Question line .......(smiling big)! OK.... here we go.... So my guy and I are considering a threesome. He has a female in mind but oddly enough, I would feel more comfortable if I could invite another man and make it a foursome. (No guy on guy action though!) My Question is .....

"How do I approach my guy with my new idea for our endeavor to make me more comfortable?"  

First and foremost, thank you for bringing your question to our forum. From this point forward, I will address you as Ms. "Seduction! I will surely give your question the consideration it deserves but prior to doing so, I will allow my bloggers to chime in as always. I must say, as a disclaimer, "while we don't condone all of the actions of fanz who submit questions, we do actively seek questions that are personal to each individual" for a better, well rounded understanding. Please make yourself available for any questions our forum may have of you! 


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Is LOVE Possible? The Weekend - Sat - Sun- Mon - Question of the Day

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I have fallen for someone that should be totally off limits and I don't know how to proceed from here. My co-worker and I have been acquaintances for about 2 months and just because I am close to her, I have figured out a lot about her life. She has several men she's active with besides the one she calls her man. She is abusive to her boyfriend and treats him like he's completely a non factor. I've began to spend  time with them in groups of people and sometimes even as a third wheel for drinks. He is very intellectual and I have grown very fond of him. He and I talk when she leaves to text others or take private phone calls but we haven't crossed the line. I think we have a mutual respect for one another and communicate with our eyes when we are not talking to one another. My Question is ......
"Is there any proper way to approach my co-worker and ask her if I can pursue something with the man she treats like crap? I know it's not right, and I've never done anything like this, but I enjoy the energy we share! Help Mr. Anatomy!!!"

Honestly, anything is possible, but before I give you my opinion, lets do this. First, I will address you as Ms. "Secret" from hence forward, secondly, I will allow my bloggers to give you their opinion before I render mine. Last, please make yourself available for the next 3 days to answer any question my bloggers may have. Let the fun begin. 


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Sex with "NO" Protection ....... Wed - Thurs - Fri - Question of the Day ...

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Mr. Anatomy,
 I've been in a relationship with a man I work with for about 7 months. At first we were friends and then, the company took us on a retreat and, well, the rest is history. This man is truly secretive and doesn't openly share who he is. He just kinda comes and go into my life at his own leisure, but spends more nights with me, than he spends at his own place. He recently gave me the "girlfriend" tag and now introduces me as his woman when we are in the company of others. I don't rock the boat because, to be honest, I am just happy having him by my side. You see, I'm a big girl and he is a small fit individual, who I truly don't want to part with. He says I am the first girl with size he's ever been with and its a different "ride" as he puts it. The other night, while having sex, he removed his condom and inserted himself in me raw without discussing it first. That was the first time we have EVER been intimate without protection, which actually concerned me a bit. My question is .......

"How long do you date a man before sex should go to the "No Condom" level? When a man removes his condom, does that say something about the future of the relationship?"

First and foremost, thank you for bringing your unique question to our forum. I selected your question out of the many I receive because I truly think this is a topic many women secretly ponder within themselves. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. "Voluptuous" and allow my bloggers to give you insight into the question you have posed. I will chime in a bit later once everyone else has had the opportunity. Please remain available for any questions our bloggers may have. 

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"Interracial Dating" Where do I fit in? Fri - Sat - Sun -Question of the Day...

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I'm an African American woman living in (Not Gonna Say it) trying to navigate this maze we call life. I was in a long term relationship with a man I met in high school and we eventually married and had 2 children. Last year I lost my man to a Caucasian  woman and I have been extremely bitter about it every since. I am a professional attorney and I recently made partner at my firm. My ex husband and I are still friends and are great parents for our children. When I asked him why he left me for this lady, he said there are fundamental differences between dating black women and dating white women that frankly I would never understand. He has agreed to answer any questions my friends and I may have on your blog about those differences should the need arise. My girlfriend said she used your blog with success and suggested I bring my question to you as well. Understand, I am not trying to alienate any of your bloggers, I just thought this would  be a way to finally understand why black women are losing a battle for our "GOOD" brothers to women of different races. I hope we can have this discussion, without it getting too messy.  My question is......
"Why are black men now dating white women at an alarming rate? Can dating a different race truly be that different in the eyes of a man?"

Ma'am, my bloggers are, for the most part, very intellectual and candid individuals, so I feel this is a discussion we can have in an effort to answer your question. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. Professional as a matter of respect and clarity. Please make yourself available for any questions my bloggers may have of you. You are officially our topic for our weekend symposium! 



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Mr. Anatomy,
I have a question that may not be very popular with your bloggers. I am a stripper and have been for 3 years. I started dancing when I first entered college and I've been able to sustain my life through the income I make. I am a product of an interracial marriage. My father was a Navy Pilot and my mom a surgeon from Jordan. They divorced when I was 15 and I have been living the California life since. My features are dark because of my dad, and Middle Eastern because of my mom. My looks have always opened doors but I never truly know if people are truly loving me or just my body. I met an older gentleman at the upscale club I work at near (Not Gonna Say it) and he has been taking care of me somewhat for the last 8 months. I have fallen in love with this man, but I have never told him because I was trying to keep in business-like. My Question is .......

"Do Sugar Daddies ever marry the young girl they take care of ?" He is very prominent and wealthy. I just wonder if he means everything he says about a possible future with me!" 

Thank you for posing your question here in our forum. From hence forward, I will address you as Ms. Exotic Dancer in reference to your profession. Like always, I have my opinion, but I will wait until our bloggers have had a chance to speak. Please remain available for any questions they may have! 




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Mr. Anatomy, 
I truly can't believe I am asking  this question, but what that hell, nobody knows me, right? I am tapping into my inner most thoughts and trying my best to pull out something good. I have met this lady and the situation is far from PERFECT but I felt we have connected on a level all our own. She's in a rocky relationship and I'm just doing me; Not really committed to anyone but myself while I navigate this life. I didn't mean to meet anyone and I damn sure wasn't ready to call anyone my own, but hey, I have met this lady and she is clicking with me in places I didn't realize I still looked for. So far our friendship is perfect, our conversation is fun, and the awkward situations are always cleared with a smile. I guess the Question I am asking in the most basic way I know how is ......

"How do you know you have met someone really special? Someone that might be worth looking at for a possible future?" 

Sir, from this point forward, I will address you as Mr. "Real Man!" I have selected this question because I love it when men think of others and expose their vulnerability to seek answers to questions we normally dismiss as "being Mushy!" Thanks for bringing your question to us and please remain available for the next 3 days to keep our discussion fruitfully productive!  Bloggers, your time starts NOW! 


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Mr. Anatomy,
I'm a good "Mid Western Girl"  and I have a question about sex within my marriage. One of my friends who says she met you personally on a plane suggested I request your help with my solution. I've been married 12 years to a really good man. We are not the most religious couple you'll meet, but we are Christians that are living as right as we know how. For the past 6 months or so, my husband has been insisting I perform an act on him during sex that I question whether or not is necessary for anyone to have a strong orgasm. He wants me to insert a "battery operated man organ" in his anus while he is pleasuring me. Our bedroom activity has always been successful in achieving the feeling we both desire, but he wants this act for his birthday and I am just NOT comfortable with going through with it. My Question is ........

"If a man wants a man organ inserted in himself during sex, does it mean he is bi-curious or desires another male to be happy during intercourse?"

Ma'am, from here forward, I will address you as Ms. Midwest Girl and try to find an answer to your question through my bloggers and supporters. While I have an opinion, I will allow others to voice their sentiment before giving you advice that I deem is helpful in this situation. Please remain available for any questions my bloggers may have of you which is always the basis for a fruitful discussion. 


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Safe Sex or "No" Sex, that is the Question; Fri-Sat-Sun Weekend Scrambler

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Mr. Anatomy,
I found your blog by using Google and see from your prior questions, you have answers for today's real topics. I live in a small town in (not gonna say it) and my husband and I are at odds on whether we should teach our 17 year old daughter to practice abstinence or place her on birth control. My argument is many of her friends are getting pregnant at an early age or using abortion as a means of birth control only to learn their lesson and then get on some type of contraceptive later. I am for birth control but my husband has a strict religious background and feels we will send the wrong message by preaching birth control and not abstinence. We have agreed to take your answer and let you decide our debate. So, I guess the question is .....

"Is it better to teach abstinence before marriage, or prepare young adults by putting them on birth control?" 

I have accepted your question because I think this is a topic that has been debated in the media for years, so why not debate it here as well. I have a firm answer for how I feel and believe, but prior to offering that opinion, I will let my dedicated bloggers give you their views. I will address you as Ms. "Concerned Parent" hence forward. Please make yourself available by answering any questions the bloggers may have to ensure this process gets the exposure it deserves. 


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Mr. Anatomy, 
I read your weekend question and I have been following your blog for a while. I submitted this question weeks ago but I understand you are probably bombarded with more important questions. So, here again, I'll explain myself. I have been dating the same guy for a year after being married for 20 years. After my divorce, I was alone for a while until I met him. He's a great guy, educated, stable, and also divorced. My dilemma is; I'm new to this dating thing so I am wondering if this is all life has to offer? We have fun, we go out, but the security of him being my man, is just not there. We are intimate and enjoy being with each other. My Question is ......

"What is the difference between "making love" and "just sex?" Should a woman know?"

From this point further, I will refer to you as Ms. "Fun Love" and have my bloggers do the same. The reason for the delay in the acceptance of your question is, typically, I post questions from people I am "Life Coaching" first or by matter of seriousness. I always try to answer all question and again, I apologize for any delay.......! Now, let's get your question out there. Please check back to answer any questions the bloggers may have of you! 

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Dear Mr. Anatomy,
I am the "Shawty" in your last question that my 'soon to be lawyer friend' wrote you about. I was flattered that he likes me because when you are in a bad relationship, sometimes, it just helps to smile. He and I work together and I do like him and his honesty but I am in no position to start a new relationship. I have been with my boyfriend off and on for about 8 years and we have a son. My boyfriend owns several (not gonna say it) franchises and when we met, he was still married but has since divorced. Although he carries himself as a Thug at times, he is truly a great businessman. The problem, he can't keep his hands to himself. Some days are great, but then there are other days that if I look at him wrong, he says, "I know you ain't catching an attitude, because you know I have a remedy for that." My family has alienated me, my friends stay far away and I try to put on a happy face daily. My life is just seriously complicated. I guess I need a question, so here it is ........

"How can a man call you his "Princess" but fight you like his enemy in the streets?" I don't deserve this life because I am a good person, but I'm all my son has, so I remain steadfast through prayer!

Ma'am, from this point forward, I will address you as Ms. Princess and your boyfriend as the "mean, ugly, Ogre." You are in a dogfight, and if you remain, things may turn for the worst. I will turn this over to my bloggers and then offer an opinion much later in the process! Thanks for bringing your question to our Forum! 


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Mr. Anatomy,
I have an issue with a woman. I work at (not  gonna say it) and there is a young lady that I am interested in at our firm. The problem is she is involved with someone else that has that bad boy image. Everyday she comes to work with a very negative attitude about what's going on in her home. People at work are whispering that there may be some abuse in her house, but everyone tries to stay in their own business. Well, we have had lunch several times and I like her a lot and I know she likes me. When she smiles, it seems like she releases some pain slowly, but when it's time to go home, her attitude goes sour again. When I try to get her to open up, she just replies, "You would never understand!"  However, I am a good guy; clean cut, 27 year old college grad. I guess I am like the "Carlton Banks" character on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air. I am very attractive, but just not a thug and I didn't grow up on the wrong side of the tracks! I am going to Law School at night to one day start my own practice. The firm we work at has already committed to making me Jr. Associate when I graduate. My Question is .......

"Why don't ladies like the good guys? They always want the bad boy image! Is it something they want that we aren't giving?"

From hence forward, I will address you as Mr. Good Guy. I selected your question because it hits very close to home with an issue I am counseling about currently. I would like people's input and true opinions before I go further. Thanks for bringing your question to our Forum!


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Mr. Anatomy,
I stumbled on your site using Google and have read some of your reviews on giving advice and real answers. The consensus is you are a person who don't stray away from the unique questions people want to know the answer to. With that, I have a situation. I am an attorney from Florida who litigates for political interest. I've been married to my wife for 2 years and she is of Cuban descent. While she speaks Spanish, I don't. Well, in my absence, she has rekindled an old friendship with an old male best friend she knew while in high school. She secretly told me his is gay, and doesn't pose a threat in any way to our relationship, however, I noticed, they always speak to one another in Spanish in my presence which really has me wondering what is being said. They both are fluent in English but choose to speak in their native tongue in the presence of others. She hired his company to do our lawn work and our pool maintenance. Even though he's the owner of the company and don't do the work himself, he seems to be at my house every time his employees come out to work.  My Question is .....

"Can a man and woman be platonic friends and trusted to do the "right" thing when no one is watching? and, How do I know he is truly Gay, are there tell tell signs?"

Your question is very unique in nature and as such, has been selected to take the Anatomy fanz and bloggers into the weekend. While I definitely have my opinion about platonic friendships with men and women, I will let my trusted bloggers address your concerns before I chime in. Bloggers, have at it, and thanks for being so loyal! 


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Mr. Anatomy,
I have been dating the same guy for almost a year but have known him much longer. I am a single mother of 2 daughters from a previous relationship. My boyfriend spends all of his freetime from work with me and spends the night with me as well. When I asked for more of a commitment, he backs away and says "he cannot commit; he's not ready!" On Valentines Day, I found text messages between he and a co-worker that were completely inappropriate. When I questioned these text, he appologized and assured me it was just innocent texting and it would stop immediately! However, since that episode, things have been different and this past weekend, he said "I need a break!" Those words have devistated me and he has not removed any of his things from my place. Mr. Anatomy, "HELP," I'm 25 years old and he's 22. I know I might be young, but I am a very responsible adult. My Question is.......

"What does his words mean? Is this relationship over, or does "I need a break" mean more than what is said?

From this point forward, I will referr to you as "Ms. 25." I have my ideas of your relationship, but before I chime in, I will allow my dedicated bloggers to offer their advice based on your situation. The only commitment I need from you, as I do from all of my question-ees is this; please respond in a timely manner to any question they pose. Happy Blogging!!

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Mr. Anatomy,
You don't usually have questions from men, so I thought I would try my hand to see if you would publish a question that a lot of men want to know the answer to. You seem to have the crowd that don't mind tackling question everybody else run from, so here we go. I met a lady about three weeks ago that I have been looking at for about 6 months. I spoke to her every morning and even sat in my car until she pulled up and acted like I was just getting to work so I could walk in with her and spend a moment sniffing her perfume on the elevator.  We work for different companies in the same building. Well, we went out last week and after a long night of fun and drinking, I finally made it to her place. She had a beautiful condo in an upscale downtown building. I was impressed but when we made it to her bedroom and started to kiss and touch one another, she got up and got a Magnum condom out of her purse! I was like WTF and I thought to myself, "I can't fill that up! Who the hell you use to sleeping with? I'm not Shaquille O'Neal," but I used it and it wasn't the best I've ever been. I have kinda been avoiding her every since that night because she shocked me. My Question is ..........

"What exactly is the woman who carries condoms in her purse, a real woman, or a sleezy freak? Should I avoid her type?"

Sir, I don't avoid 'Men Questions,' women just send in more questions than us guys! I think this is a good one, so I have agreed to let it be our focus for the weekend. Bloggers, have at it! 

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Why have "YOU" forsaken Me!! Tues-Wed-Thurs Question of the day .....

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Mr. Anatomy, 
I know we all have problems, but mine has completely changed my life. I met a guy in October of 2009 after losing my best friend in the whole world to an untimely death. While we lived in different cities, we started by texting. He was just a very supportive guy who comforted me during my grieving period. Over the next few months, we talked and texted and truly got to know one another. Finally, it was time to meet so I scheduled to meet this man in April 2010. The day before I was to drive 4 1/2 hours, I started having anxiety and did some extensive research, only to find, this supportive gentleman was "Married!" He never told me this! I was completely devastated, but he begged me to come anyway and assured me they were not living a traditional marriage, as they are not together! We met, had a great uninterrupted  weekend, and our magic love affair began. Four months later, I was pregnant and in love but shortly after the baby was born, my downward spiral began. He moved to where I live, and all the promises of protection, love, and security was replace by insecurity, verbal and mental abuse, and a person struggling to take care of me and his child. I lost a lot with this man, and now, I live in his city and we are both at wits end with one another with financial troubles, fighting, his cheating and no desire to divorce his past. Mr. Anatomy, my question is ..........

"How do I move forward after investing 2 years in a relationship heading "no where?" I have a child in pampers, and a life in shambles!"

Ma'am, you do have quite the dilemma and I will accept the responsibility of Life Coaching you with open arms. While this will be a journey, you have to listen and attempt to understand my methods of improvement. My bloggers are sincere so bloggers, start your engines. 


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No More " Tequila" Sunrises..? Our Weekend Scramble & Question of the Day .....

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Mr. Anatomy,
I am almost ashamed to share my story with you, but I was directed to you by a friend who said you could help me sort through my dilemma.  Please don't judge me, as I would like to have an initial consultation to see if Life Coaching will help with my anger over this situation. Last month, I took a cruise with 5 other childhood lady friends. While on this cruise, something strange happened and the details are a bit sketchy as to how I got myself in this situation. We got off the boat in Cancun, we had a great night drinking tequila and dancing with the locals. Toward the end of the night, the liquor got the best of me, and we returned to the ship to turn in. When I woke up, I was naked, in the same bed with my friend with toys and other sexual items around me. My face was at her feet and her face at mine. I am a heterosexual woman who has NEVER even thought of interacting with another female. When I got up, I felt my body had been violated and probed without my permission. It was so "Awkward" that we still haven't discussed the extent of what happened that night. My Question is .......

"Was I set up or given some type of date rape drug by my friend?" I want to tell my Husband, but fear what he may think of me!"

You do have quite the "dilemma" as you have described it and I will certainly accept your situation by first letting our bloggers assist with the details of this boat ride to unwanted advances. Bloggers, please be sensitive to her feelings with only serious responses. I will monitor the postings carefully and remove anything that may attack her character. Let the blogging begin! 


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I'm In "LOVE" with a Stripper! Mon-Tues-Wed- Question of the Day ...

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Mr. Anatomy,
I'm a High School principal in California and I am also in the Army Reserves. I'm married to my 25 year old high school sweetheart. I was deployed to Afghanistan for 8 months with my reserve unit. When I left, our financial situation was really bad, but since it's just the two of us, we have always managed to just make it! Well, while I was away, my wife, told me she took a job as a cocktail waitress to make ends meet but when I got home, she told the truth, and said she has been stripping because it paid better than being a waitress. I was very angry and demanded she stop immediately but she said the club owner loaned her a lot of money to "help out" and she said she can't stop until her debt is paid. Since she is a teacher at one of the high schools, people are whispering all over our small town about what she is doing. I went to see her perform and sat in the back of the club. I was so disgusted, I left because I saw my wife naked on stage and men touching her to give her money! I can't even make love to her without seeing other men all over her.  My Question is ..

"Can a HUSBAND, truly love a wife that is a stripper? This is affecting our life, please Mr. Anatomy, I need help!"

Hurchel Williams, MBA

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